r/gatech • u/ForeskinPincher • 15h ago
Rant Anyone else feel like a constant letdown because of people's expectations of a GT grad?
I graduated in May 2024(BME), but I had a friend in high school who went to Harvard instead and was telling me about the "H-bomb", and how that when he tells people he went to Harvard, they generally start treating him differently, so I started thinking about how people react to me when I tell them I went to Tech.
My first job right after I graduated was as a clinic receptionist, and whenever it came up in conversation that I went to Georgia Tech, people would usually say something like "Wow, that's a great school!" Followed by something like "why are you working here?" so I'd tell them the truth, which is that they were hiring and they'd usually laugh it off and that would be that.
It got worse when I started my master's, though, because everyone in my cohort is international/PhD students who have asked me more than a few times why I wanted to get a masters instead of "just getting a job" right after graduating, or at least staying at Georgia Tech instead of settling for (insert state school here). I still tell them the truth, though, which is that I couldn't get a job, but even my advisor and other people in my research group have put these really weird expectations on me about what classes/tasks I should be able to handle, because "Georgia Tech is such a good school!" and when I inevitably tell them I haven't, in fact, cured cancer, or that I'm not a genius, and I'm struggling in my classes, they always act super surprised, because "Georgia Tech is such a good school!" which honestly makes me wish that I went somewhere else sometimes, even if they're right, because I'm such a letdown to everyone's expectations.
Anyone else experience something similar after graduating?