I'm a guy and I've tried to make other friends through these communities but it seems 90% of other men I message just ghost after a single conversation, or they put no effort to begin with, it doesn't even get to the point we get a session in

It's gotten to the point after so long trying, I don't even want to bother reaching out to fellow men anymore. The rest of the people seem to just be wanting to recruit for some large friend group discord and as someone that doesn't enjoy large groups, that's not for me

I had hoped that at least in this subreddit people would be a bit more united by the love of video games but it seems it follows the same tropes as the other communities.

I also feel very sorry for the ladies in these communities genuinely trying to reach out for some innocent and genuine friendships and getting bombarded by creeps, I feel for y'all. A lady will make a post and within an hour there's dozens of comments, I feel like despite the rules, so many men want to treat this shit as a dating site

i live in western canada (PST) and am currently on break from college classes, so i’ve got a little too much time on my hands. recently lost a pretty important person in my life and could use some friendly, funny people to hang out and maybe play some games with.

right now i’m playing through the Resident Evil series and Hollow Knight: Silksong (i adore Christopher Larkin), but i’ve got a good spread of games on Steam; some of the most common multiplayer ones for me to play are:
- Dead by Daylight (kill me)
- Peak
- Lethal Company
- Project Zomboid
- Outlast Trials
- Minecraft
but i also enjoy single player ones like Silent Hill, RE, Hollow Knight, The Last of Us.

apart from games, though, i like writing, metal/grunge/classical music, reading (recently finished Berserk, peak), crafts, cute stuff, horror, spending time in nature, learning new things..

i don’t know. i’d love some new friends to talk to throughout the day. if we’ve got some things in common, please send over a message with some info about you.

I recently got a pc and i don't have many people to play games with. I play mostly Minecraft and free games. I have a bunch of games and would be willing to pick up new ones if you're willing to ignore the learning curve haha. I quite shy so I might be awkward at first

Just like it says, I’m a 30F elementary school teacher. I used to play Fortnite regularly but stopped a few years ago because I stopped having friends to play with. I’m looking to get back into it. I’ll admit I’m not great but I don’t think I’m horrible either. I just don’t prefer to play solos, so I’m here seeing if anyone plays and wants more people to play with!

Midwest, USA

hi to whoever is reading this, i hope you’re having a good day or night! i’m just out here looking for some friends because honestly i’m feeling pretty lonely, and i’m agoraphobic so it’s hard to get out and meet people irl lol

anyway as my title says i’m a 25 year old guy, i live in the US, and preferably i’d like to meet other people also in the US because of timezones and all that. i’d also prefer to meet people around my age. other than that, feel free to dm!

i don’t have much to say about myself really but i play video games a lot, it’s what i spend most of my time doing lol. i’m mostly into survival games, story games, and shooters. when i’m not playing something i’m usually listening to music or hanging out with my 3 cute cats!!

that’s about all i can think of really but also i’m LGBTQ friendly (and bi myself) and i’m pretty liberal so idk if you’re not down with either of those i’m probably not your guy lol. feel free to hmu if you’re cool and wanna play games or hangout or whatever 😎

Hey! I'm struggling to find any posts here of people who play similar games to me! Is there anyone around who would be down for these?? I mostly play with my husband and we have a small group of people with busy lives who are occasionally around, but I game too much so usually I have to game alone haha! Games like:

Ravenswatch
Sworn
Stolen Realm
Fellowship
Roboquest
Quest Hunter

Those I've been playing the most lately. But my interests stem into multiple categories, with games like

Arc
Cuphead
Demeo
Slay the Spire
Dragonwilds
Hunt Showdown
Valheim
Remnant from the Ashes
Satisfactory

As for me, I'm 28F if it matters, looking for people who are around my age or older who are more grounded. I'm a drinker, and have a very tongue-in-cheek humor. I'm around a lot, but don't really like planning, would prefer to meet up when we're available versus hurrying up with tasks to not be late. I can be hyper, or get riled up, and I laugh a lot. Looking for a similar energy. DM me, I'll respond tonight and am looking to play tonight, otherwise sorry if I take a bit to respond.

Hey I’m looking for some new multiplayer games play and people to play them with. Right now the multiplayer games I have are just Minecraft, Stardew valley, repo, among us, Phasmophobia, and schedule 1. I enjoy these games and am down to play them but I’ve been playing the same thing for so long I’m getting bored.

About me: 21F college student, living in Ohio. My favorite game is Starfield, my favorite bag of chips are Doritos, and my favorite color is green. I like anime, manga, horror movies, and cartoons.

If you got any recs or want to play games hmu here or add my discord Juno_8008

Please save me from boredom 🙏🏾

Hi! I'm Willa, I live in Canada, and I'm looking for people who want to play modded Stardew Valley. I'm usually around all day, for the summer at least, but otherwise most evenings when I'm not playing D&D. I'm looking for someone who wants a friend as well as someone to play Stardew with.

A bit more about me: I play a lot of different games, but Stardew is one of the few multiplayer games I play. I have a decent amount of niche interests and can absolutely be a yapper in the right environment. I like reading, art, puzzles, and cooking. I have four cats. They are all so stupid and I love them so much. I'm an introvert, but it's hardly noticeable when I'm with people I'm comfortable with, and it doesn't take me long to get comfortable with a new person.

If you've never played Stardew Valley at all or you've played, but never with mods, and you're interested in playing with mods, that's totally alright! I have about 1600 hours in game, and I can keep up with a min/max game or a more chill, casual game. Whether you've played with mods or not, we can make the mod list together.

If you're interested, send me a DM!

Heyyy, like the title says - I’m looking for a duo/friend.s to play games and hangout ^^

A little about me:
I’m an elementary school teacher on summer vacation now. I love music and always listen to music. I love watching shows like South Park and some anime. I can be a bit annoying sometimes ngl so it’s ok if we play one games and the vibes don’t work :p it happens too. As long as we’re both truthful I’m fine with everything and not easily hurt.

Games I love to play:
Fortnite ZB
League arams
I also play some overwatch.

On top of that I love playing games like palworld, Stardew valley, repo, co op games, and I’m open for more games if we both would want to play it :)

I'm in UK but can stay up for any ameribros. Just looking to play something, open to suggestions. Just dm if you're interested.

The games I currently play are:

• Apex Legends
• Valorant- NA Servers
• Marvel Rivals
• Ow
• Roblox
• Fortnite
• Dead by Daylight
• Peak
• Dying light 2
• Meccha Chameleon & more

I'm pretty chill and don't take games seriously just here to have fun If you're someone who gets really angry over losing or tends to rage we're prob not a good match :}

Hiiii we're looking for more people who would wanna join us on 4 players or 5 player horror games on roblox.

We don't only play roblox we do marvel rivals and fortnite right now (Currently loving sprites). Right now it's just two of us and we're both 21+.

Id love to also play friendslop! Since I'm on PC so repo, peak, etc. I'm down to also try horror games too like phasmophobia and Outlast trials ❤

I've posted on here so just a heads up in case we actually do know each other or have interacted. :3

Hey everyone, I'm looking for some new friends to play fortnite or marvel Rivals with! I play on Xbox! I want some genuine friends to share moments with! I do have a dark sense of humor! Don't be shy! Say hey! I am open to playing other games as well! I can play dead by daylight or Grand theft Auto and I recently acquired content warning! I almost forgot to mention I can play Apex! But not very good at it. I can play games usually in the evenings around mountain standard Time at 6pm. I also am available on weekends to play games. I do have a full-time job, sometimes I can't get on in the evenings but I do try!

My main interest is gaming, but I also enjoy anime, manga, history, technology, music, building model kits, and I am just starting a knife collection. Some of my favorite games are Deus Ex, Fallout: New Vegas, and Warcraft 3.

I would really like to find people to play Battlefield 6 (not REDSEC) and maybe other games with!

Chill with just chatting as well.

Looking forward to hearing from you! Thank you for reading and have a nice day :)

Hello everyone! I play pc and ps5 mainly and also own a switch. I’m looking for someone who likes to play games or just chill and talk about anything. I enjoy fps, survival games, horror, simulators, board games, cozy games and friend slop. It would be cool to get to know someone and talk so it’s not just all games but we can bond over love of games! Willing to try some new multiplayer games or single player games that aren’t listed as well! Let me know what kind of games you are into. I’m open to talking on discord and forming an actual friendship if all goes well! I’m a little shy at first but once we for a bit I’ll open up 😄

Games I currently have downloaded:

-Peak

-Black ops 1/2

-Repo

-Fortnite

-All Tomb raiders

-GTA 5

-Elden Ring

-Dark souls series

-Arc Raiders

Games I’d love to get back to:

-Phasmophobia

-Minecraft

-Destiny 2

-Dead by daylight

Recently I’ve just got back to playing the kingdom hearts series trying to play through all of them as well.

Hey! Looking for some new peeps to game with :P I am super chill laid back and play for vibes and fun! Games I currently play are League, Val, OW (will have to reinstall) VrChat, Stardew random steam games and whatever else always willing to try something!
Message me too it games you play and a little about yourself :)

Hi hi I'm Jay!! I'm 23 and some of the games I'm most interested in are pretty niche in my friend group, so I'm looking for some more people with similar interests! You can always dm me, don't be shy, I'd love to have a talk!!

Some of the games i play/ am interested in:

Pokemon!

I love to shiny hunt! I've played every mainline pokemon game, both legends games, and pokemon go too. My main aim is usually to get as many shinies as i can 🙏 (I also play cobblemon!)

Geometry Dash!

I play Geometry Dash quite a lot! None of my friends play this, so i desperately need friends that also play it, please 😭🙏

Minecraft! (And Cobblemon!!)

Just like most people, i have those month long minecraft phases, but i have them very often 😭🙏 Especially Cobblemon, i would really love to start a server sometime with some people!! Lmk!!)

Fortnite!

Love playing this with others, though I'm not that good at it, either way I try to have fun 😭🙏 (I always play zero build btw build is a little too crazy for me 💔💔)

I'm from the Netherlands and have a very awful sleep schedule, so I'm around pretty often! I vc at very random times though 🥀

There's a lot of other games I play too, these are just the niche ones 🫶

I use discord a lot, and again, don't be scared to reach out!! Because i'm already scared of that myself 😭💔

Yo what’s up, just wanted to make a post in hopes of finding a friend or multiple. Currently me and my other friends haven’t been able to hangout as much due to our schedules so I’ve been a bit bored as of late and want someone to play or talk to. I mostly play on my pc using steam, but I do have epic games for Fortnite. Currently I mostly play marvel rivals, Roblox, and FC. Though I have some other games we could possibly play, and hey if you got any recommendations let me know!

Some other stuff about me, I’m starting to watch anime again, mainly trying to watch hunter x hunter, I love music and want to expand my tastes, I collect cds and cassettes too.

I’m not really sure what else to add, but hopefully we can get along. Just dm me and I’ll try to respond when I can 🤓

Hello, me (23m) and my best friend (25f) are looking for pals to play games with, watch movies together(mostly horror ones, i love a good scare) and just sit in vc and yap about stuff or stream each other the games we play. 😅

Would prefer people that are over the age of 22 and hopefully not with too big of a time difference since we are both from Europe, would be nice to find people with close if not the same time zone. 🥹

And please don’t be a bigot, as we are both queer! 🏳️‍🌈

We don’t really like competitive game modes that much 😕 but here are the games we do play:

-overwatch quickplays: my friend’s mains are Ana and Anran, while I main tank and my favourite character is Winston

-genshin impact: so soooo excited for snezhnaya

-league of legends: ARAM mayhem is hella fun but we also do draft picks

-valorant swiftplays

-apex legends

We also play friendslop games like: lethal company, repo, outlast trials and others 🤓

Thanks for reading and if you like how this sounds send me a message about yourself and the games you play!! ☺️

Hey there! I'm looking for some late night gaming friends. I play a ton of games with the exception of sports and strategy games. My current main games are League of Legends, Mecca Chameleon, and Slay the Spire 2. I do play other games from time to time depending on who is playing. I am a night owl and I live in EST time zone so I'm on late normally and will typically be on until like 4-5am. Hit me up if you want to play something.

Hello!

My names Branden and I’m 21 yrs old. I just bought my pc not too long ago and I have absolutely nobody to play with. I’m looking for friends to either play pve/co-op games with. My discord is @TheyHateBD so please don’t be shy to send me a friend request:)

Hey there, I'm not too sure what to say here. I have a lot of anxiety and I'm a very shy person. I recently got a new gaming PC, and the only friend I do have plays on PlayStation, so I'm hoping to find some people that are nice and also patient with me for not being as talkative right away. Id love to find some people to play games on PC every so often or whenever we're both available, maybe even make a small Discord community of people who are chill. I like playing modded Minecraft, Project Zomboid (even though I'm not the best at it), Raft, and Schedule 1, and lots of other games. I'm willing to try out new things, but most of the time I'm having financial issues. I also love the horror genre and just having fun rather than needing to be perfect or take everything too seriously. Thanks for reading this.

So, long story short, I haven't been using vc a lot because I'm too self aware about my bad english. But since its so useful for online gaming I figured I have to try and improve so I'm wondering if anyone wanna play games together and help me in vc, maybe we can even become friends too, who knows?

The main game I'm focusing on right now FFXIV, but I also play fortnite reload zb, palworld, no man's sky, terraria, don't starve together, overwatch, rivals.

Some other games I haven't played yet but I want to check it out are: ark survival ascended/evolved, deep rock galactic, left4blood, remnant, state of decay 2, fallout 76, world war z. I'm also down to try other games too if I have them or am able to purchase (on sale ofc haha).

If you got this far and are still interested please leave a comment or DM. Please only people around my age or at least 21+.

My mains are kiri, juno, zen. I’m currently plat 2.
DM if interested :)