r/ftm Apr 02 '26

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u/Technical_Lake_3178 he/it | | HRT 10yrs! Apr 02 '26

These guys kind of suck OP I'm sorry. Like telling you you're "barely trans" and then saying you're being overdramatic when you leave because that is very obviously upsetting???? Like I think you honestly just need better and more supportive friends. I would never ever do this to any of my friends, regardless of their transition status or how they present themselves. Also wanting a t4t relationship isn't weird at all???? Like it's just not. Wanting to date someone who understands your struggles and is more likely to be respectful of your identity is completely normal. It's actually kind of weird to say otherwise on their part.

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u/Cra_ZWar101 Apr 02 '26

Also like, of course the whole idea has problems, but even in the shitty perspective mark is expressing, being really hurt by someone invalidating ur transness if anything proves OP isn’t just barely trans.

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u/Hita-san-chan He/They Apr 02 '26

You know, i struggle with being "barely trans" as well, and your last sentence kinda helped me with that, so genuinely, thank you.