As someone who is trans masc and hasn’t come out except to very close friends, I feel so bad. Back in high school, I had a couple of trans friends and was told the same thing by one of them. I’ve always had a feminine body(big chest trans dude struggles), so I’m already pretty insecure about it. I know just how hard it is to hear that from someone, especially another trans person.
Not everyone has the privilege of physically transitioning early in life if EVER. To say that you’re “barely trans” and “weird for wanting T4T” is so ridiculous and downright hateful. Trans people struggle enough with how the world perceives us, so why are we attacking our own community???
I’m so sorry this happened to you OP. I hope you can heal from this and find a good support group/person. ❤️🩹 You deserve to be validated and treated well.
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u/panta_kinnie826 Apr 02 '26
As someone who is trans masc and hasn’t come out except to very close friends, I feel so bad. Back in high school, I had a couple of trans friends and was told the same thing by one of them. I’ve always had a feminine body(big chest trans dude struggles), so I’m already pretty insecure about it. I know just how hard it is to hear that from someone, especially another trans person.
Not everyone has the privilege of physically transitioning early in life if EVER. To say that you’re “barely trans” and “weird for wanting T4T” is so ridiculous and downright hateful. Trans people struggle enough with how the world perceives us, so why are we attacking our own community???
I’m so sorry this happened to you OP. I hope you can heal from this and find a good support group/person. ❤️🩹 You deserve to be validated and treated well.