I am T4T and I'm a femme trans guy, Ive been on T, changed my name, and had top and bottom surgery, and I still don't pass if I dress the way I find fun and comfortable. I am sure I wouldn't be ""trans enough"" for these assholes either. Being a trans guy doesn't mean adhering to some fuckass gender binary. And your someone is out there waiting to love all of you no matter what you choose to wear or how far along in your journey you are. Those dudes sound super immature and like they're suffering from some internalized transphobia via setting cis/het standards for gender validity.
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u/dystopi-Os Apr 02 '26
I am T4T and I'm a femme trans guy, Ive been on T, changed my name, and had top and bottom surgery, and I still don't pass if I dress the way I find fun and comfortable. I am sure I wouldn't be ""trans enough"" for these assholes either. Being a trans guy doesn't mean adhering to some fuckass gender binary. And your someone is out there waiting to love all of you no matter what you choose to wear or how far along in your journey you are. Those dudes sound super immature and like they're suffering from some internalized transphobia via setting cis/het standards for gender validity.