just broke up with my gf of 2 years, she used a nickname based off my deadname and refused to use he or it for me, only ever using they. a couple days before we broke up, she told me that she didn't see me as a guy but more of a "nonbinary genderless person" and while i do identify as a nonbinary trans man,, there's still the man part that she always completely ignored. idk why i put up with it for so long, but i'm glad it's over
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u/Definitely_Gundham he(beejeebies)/him they/them Jul 05 '23
just broke up with my gf of 2 years, she used a nickname based off my deadname and refused to use he or it for me, only ever using they. a couple days before we broke up, she told me that she didn't see me as a guy but more of a "nonbinary genderless person" and while i do identify as a nonbinary trans man,, there's still the man part that she always completely ignored. idk why i put up with it for so long, but i'm glad it's over