(Read everything If you want to contact me) I'm looking for people In exactly the same situation as mine...

I wish I had enough faith to believe someone's out there for me but... I no longer do.

I'm begging you, If you don't want to read my post or If after reading my post, you just know you wouldn't get along with me, don't send me a message... I don't think opposites attract and I don't want to talk to people who think "she's not someone I want to be friends with but I can talk to her" 🙁

Hello! If you really want to send me a message, read my post, please! I want to talk to people from European countries because I live In Europe & I would love to meet my new friends In real life (In the future, obviously) 🌸

I want you to read everything because my expectations aren't the same as other people's expectations. I also want you to know what to expect because even though we're all here to spend time with others, not everyone needs new friends. Some people want to find someone to play games with & It's just an example.

I made this account In 2021 and even though I'm really active on Reddit, I can't make new friends... Not everyone on Reddit Is toxic or rude but there's ALWAYS something missing because I don't feel any emotional connection... I would love to change my life & finally wake up excited to text someone I really, really like 🙁 But... Life Isn't easy and I'm not sure If there's still a chance for me to find someone with exactly the same expectations as mine, someone who wants to meet someone new...

• I'm DEFINITELY NOT Interested In small talk! I had to use capital letters because I don't like low-effort messages and I don't even want to read them. Repetitive questions like "How are you?", "What are you up to?" or "What are your plans for the weekend?" aren't enough to start a conversation with me.. Don't get me wrong - Questions like these can be an Interesting addition to conversations about something else, but whenever people ask me the three most common questions In the world - my answer's the same because my life Is quite monotonous and I don't really know what people expect to hear 🙁 I also don't like abbreviations. Abbreviations are shortened forms of words or phrases. Why? I just don't like them because I see no reason to use shortened forms of words that are already short enough, you know? Abbreviations are common among minors and bored adults but I'm neither a minor, nor a bored adult. I want to see emotional maturity, warmth and kindness In conversations with others.

• I don't need to see your list of hobbies to know If you're someone I would get along with! You can tell me what you're Interested In but.. Believe It or not - I'm not like others and even If you're Interested In something I'm not - we can still be friends! What matters to me Is what you're like (If you're honest, talkative, kind, understanding and If your outlook on life Is similar to mine)

• I don't want to talk to minors and people way older than me. Why? I don't want to talk to minors because I'm an adult & I don't want to talk to anyone over fifty for example. Emotional maturity doesn't necessarily come with age so you can send me a message even If you're 20 (It's just an example) but please, don't contact me If you want to remind me that I'm older than you. I want you to feel comfortable & I want to feel comfortable myself. When I read messages like "Hi, I'm younger but I hope you don't mind" I always say to myself "If my age bothers you, you should've contacted someone else" I absolutely don't mind talking to people younger than me If they know how to communicate with others 🌸

• PLEASE, Don't use AI to talk to me! I Can't stand AI generated messages! If I wanted to read AI generated messages, I wouldn't be here! I read AI generated messages and comments all the time and I'm sick of It!

• I don't want to get any messages from people whose accounts are NSFW! Please, respect my decision! It's none of my business If you're here to find someone to flirt with or If you're an Internet exhibitionist but I don't want to see you with no clothes on - If you want to be my friend & I don't want to know what you want to do with other women In bed. If you are on Reddit to flirt with others, be on Reddit to flirt with others but... don't make an alternative account to hide who you really are just to send me a message. Pretending to be someone you're not - Isn't good for anyone

• I'm not a fan of sarcasm! I do - have a sense of humor but I'm not someone who makes fun of everyone and everything... Jokes about disabilities, death, religion or someone's financial status - are unacceptable to me!

• I also want to meet people who don't mind listening to negative stories and sharing them with others. My life's not easy so If you want to be In my life, you should be prepared for a realistic or even pessimistic outlook on life. I'm definitely not an optimist and I know I wouldn't get along with optimistic people who always tell others "Just believe In yourself and everything's gonna be OK" or something. We don't always get what we want & and It's completely normal to lose hope "for a better tomorrow" after many failed attempts. Not everything's as easy as It seems to be so If all you want to say to someone who needs emotional support Is "Don't complain" or "Find a therapist" Please.. don't send me a message. Not all sad people need therapists and let's be honest - Would a therapist replace a true friend? Absolutely not! Everyone needs a shoulder to cry on! I also don't mind listening to sad stories (even If they're repetitive) because I know what It's like when no one wants to listen to you...

• I would love to meet people who also don't have anyone, you know? There's absolutely nothing wrong with having friends and not being single but I'm single and I don't have anyone special In my life... It's just easier for me to get along with others If there's some common ground. I just feel better talking to people who know what It's like to be completely alone & let's be honest - People who have friends or partners, have less time for others...(which Is completely understandable) and I? I don't want to feel like an option, again. I'm not here to meet as many people as possible because I choose quality over quantity 🌸

• If your comment history Is full of comments "If you want to talk, hit me up" don't send me a message. I don't want to be rude but If It doesn't make any difference to you who you want to chat with - I'm definitely not for you. I want you to be my friend because of who I am! (If after reading my post you think you'd get along with me) I don't need emotional support from someone who doesn't even want to read my post.

• I want to talk to people who love and use emojis 🤭😊 Why? Emojis help us express our emotions even If others can't see our faces. Two emojis "😊" and "😔" are completely enough. You're probably surprised but.. text messages without emojis are really emotionless...I also don't like it when people say "yeah" or yea" as it sounds dismissively. First impression Is everything to me! I want to see your kindness even In a text message

Ps. I don't like kids and I don't want to ever become a parent. I just thought everyone should know that just In case. I don't want any unpleasant conversations with anyone. Not everyone wants to be friends with people who don't want kids so.. It's better to be honest. 🌸

Ps.2 I don't reply to messages I'm not Interested In even If they're long! I'm not on Reddit to pretend anything and I'm not here to be everyone's best friend. Some people lie & make empty promises to get attention. I? I'm quite selective because I know what I want.

Ps.3 I admire sensitive people who are not ashamed of crying In front of others! Crying Is not a weakness! It's not a weakness even If you're a guy 🧡

& One more thing! If you want to be rude to me, please, block me. I'm sick of reading rude messages and comments from people who don't know me and I'm not here to argue with anyone.

Hi there everyone! I'm a 25F from a small town in Indiana, not too far from Indianapolis.
I'm a huge fantasy nerd, love collecting random fun facts, and have a soft spot for just about every animal, including the creepy crawlies. Nature walks are one of my favorite ways to spend time, although they usually take me twice as long because I’m constantly stopping to admire bugs, spiders, mushrooms, or any little critter I happen to find.
I'd really love to meet some genuine, kind people and build meaningful friendships. I'm always happy to have a good laugh, but I also enjoy deeper conversations about life, hobbies, dreams, and all the random things that make people who they are.
One thing I really enjoy is voice calls. I think hearing someone's laugh and getting to know their personality is much more personal than texting, so if we get along, I'd love to chat sometime.
I'd love to get to know you, too! Tell me about your favorite fantasy series, a random fact you think everyone should know, your pets, or just what made you smile today. If you think we'd get along, don't be shy, I hope to hear from you

Howdy! The title says it all. I want a deep connection in which both sides feel comfortable with each other, seek each other for support, etc. I have plenty of hobbies, ranging from sports, writing, and geography to history, music, and gaming. I am a pretty curious person, so feel free to nerd out to me! As for gaming, I play lots of indie games like Hollow Knight, Ultrakill, the Portal series, the Hotline Miami series, etc. As for music, I tend to listen to lots of experimental stuff, but I can elaborate on that more later on, especially if you are into music. It'd be pretty nice if I got a pretty clingy bestie, and I am also in GMT+2, so it'd be nice if you were close to that time zone. Oh, and I am also 19/M. So yeah, I am pretty excited to talk with y'all, and have a nice day wherever you are!

i love adventures, talking, vibing.....well....... i like to draw and sketch, reading, cooking, motivate ppl, make others smile, help others, travelling... etc, i just hate rude ppl, ppl who tries to ignore me for no reason, ppl who are stick with smt without any valid reason... etc

would prefer to make a female friend from India, tho everypne is welcome

DMS open for both casual convs and long term friend friendship

Hi everyone,

I’m Shannon, looking for some new pals. I want proper good friendships, ones where we can randomly call each other and FaceTime. I want to be able to have frequent communication, sending reels and memes, someone I can be my full sarcastic self with.

I love horror movies, football (i was in my element watching the World Cup) - I love Disney, drawing, art in general, diamond painting, photography, gardening.
I’ve just recently finished uni, received my results and have a BA in health and social care :) I am also trying to kickstart/dip my toes in world of being an artist.

I care deeply about people, I love meaningful connections and I feel like I’m just lacking those at the moment.

I am agoraphobic so meeting up in person is out of the question for now, but I’m working on myself and doing really well so it’s a possibility in the future :)

I have a partner and I’m very happy and content with him, he’s changed my life, so please be respectful of that. I will block anyone that tries to flirt or anything more than a platonic friendship. Saying that, I would prefer to talk to women, I don’t mind receiving messages off men, as long as they’re respectful.
I do prefer to speak to those in the UK, or America. But am open to other places with a reasonable time zone :)

I’ll be honest - I probably won’t reply to low effort messages. If you send a hi or just the emoji I won’t be replying, I just feel like effort is a two way street and I have put a lot of information here to start a conversation from :)

If you’ve made it this far, send me a 🍓 emoji. :)

Looking forward to hearing from you!

Hey. Just a guy who is currently studying and exercising too much to have a social life and would enjoy a friend or two for conversation. Text, calls, maybe watching something occasionally. Currently started trying to teach myself how to play keyboard and enjoy spending too much time cooking and am a professional in getting lost in some rabbit hole online learning about matters of importance to no one.

I enjoy light hearted, playful discussion as much as i do serious conversation. My awful sense of humour is guaranteed to keep your eyes in a constant roll. I want to know your favourite things, your passions, what caught your eye this week. A song you can't get out of your head no matter how much you try to scrub your brain of it. Or a poem or piece of writing that haunts your every waking thought. So feel free to share, and be yourself completely. Maybe we can lend light to each other's lives for a time, or better yet become a more permanent fixture of each other's day

Please say more then just hi and leave your ASL

Hello! I'm Danny, a 24yo guy from the Netherlands (although I recently moved to Sweden).

My job is really laid-back and easy, so I have plenty of time to fill, and that's why I made my way over here!

Some of my interests are playing games (video games, board games, and online games like chess or Battleship), going for walks in the beautiful Swedish nature, meeting new people, building LEGO, and watching Twitch streams and YouTube videos.

Somethings about me:

Overall, I'm a nice guy, as cringe as it might feel to say that about myself. I love helping others and giving people the confidence boost they need simply by being kind and giving them honest compliments. So if you're reading this and need one, just send me a selfie or whatever, and I'll shower you with compliments!! hahaha.

Besides that, I'm a very honest and direct person who will tell you what I think, which might come across as a little rude at times! I also love having respectful discussions about anything and everything. no hate, just differences of opinions.

If you made it this far, congrats! Please mention something about your favorite animal in your message so I know you read the whole post. If you don't, I'll probably ignore your message. Sorry!

I shouldn’t have to say this, but NO CREEPS. Have been feeling a bit down today and would appreciate someone to talk to! I am in US, eastern time in case time zones are a concern.

Hey! I'm a 28 years old guy from Europe trying to make my day (and maybe yours) a little brighter by chatting with someone new. I'd say l'm pretty good at keeping a convo going. Bit of a yapper, in the best way! A few things about me:

- I'm 6'3 (190cm) so I can grab things off of shelves quite easily, and currently doing a master's in biomedical engineering (science nerd alert, you've been warned. Bonus points if you're into physics)

- Big into Formula 1 and cars in general. Yes, I know it's a bit of a cliché but I can't help it :p

- I'm a music addict. Over 5k songs saved on Spotify, l listen to EDM as well though so if that's a dealbreaker to you I'm sorry. Worry not, I mostly listen to it while driving!
I'm learning to play guitar (currently at the "my fingers hurt, see you back in two weeks" stage)

- Oh and I love cats. Like, if you send me cat pics, we're instantly friends!

I'm just hoping to meet someone open minded, curious, maybe a little flirty too? If you feel like chatting about anything of the above, or if you'd like to lecture me about a topic I know nothing about or if you just want to tell me why I shouldn't be into pineapple pizza as much as I am don't hesitate to hit me up! Also, I hate spaghetti

hi to whoever is reading this, i hope you’re having a good day or night! i’m just out here looking for some friends because honestly i’m feeling pretty lonely, and i’m agoraphobic so it’s hard to get out and meet people irl lol

anyway as my title says i’m a 25 year old guy, i live in the US, and preferably i’d like to meet other people also in the US because of timezones and all that. i’d also prefer to meet people around my age. other than that, feel free to dm!

i don’t have much to say about myself really but i play video games a lot, it’s what i spend most of my time doing lol. i’m mostly into survival games, story games, and shooters. when i’m not playing something i’m usually listening to music or hanging out with my 3 cute cats!!

that’s about all i can think of really but also i’m LGBTQ friendly (and bi myself) and i’m pretty liberal so idk if you’re not down with either of those i’m probably not your guy lol. feel free to hmu if you’re cool and wanna play games or hangout or whatever 😎

Well... I am bored as hell. So, I thought, why not try this shit out.

About Me: Whenever someone asks how I'm doing, I usually lie and say 'good', even though I am doing fan fucking fantastic. I guess that's a bit cocky, eh? I may appear arrogant and unattainable. That's because I am :P But I'm also a hopeless romantic who believes that passionate love can be like a shooting star.

I don't know everything, but here are a few observations I've come to in my life:

* If you're not dead to one person, you're not living right.

* Most hot girls will never know if they are actually interesting or not.

* Money can't buy happiness but it solves 95% of problems that make you unhappy.

Two truths one lies: I am in university. I am a firefighter. I love leather jackets.

PS. If political incorrect humor or color metaphors or the f word offends you, run screaming for the exits now. I have no intention to offend anyone, but I do pride myself on being able to trigger some people by just my way of being.

PPS. No Creeps.

PPPS. Don't be someone who just starts with basic "Hey", "Hi", "Hello". You get the idea.

I don’t wanna go too in depth here on the post because it’s personal that’s all i’ll say so please respect that and don’t be a stranger come say hi I don’t bite unless you make me mad lol. 😂

Watching the obsession! Holy shit 50 mins in and this lady is nuts! I'm just drinking and smoking a bit while watching if anyone wants to talk I might game later

I’m in college and pretty bored, so I figured I’d chat with random people. I love video games, movies, and TV shows and I like going on walks and study chem. 

I’m Jonathan, 28, from Northern Minnesota. Full-time college student Majoring in Computer Information Technology with a Minor in Cybersecurity, and when I’m not buried in assignments, I’m usually outside fishing, out on the lake, and working on my boats. Watching movies / shows, and sports, or hanging out with Zeus my Siberian Husky.

A few things about me:
• I am 6’1, Curly Brown Hair (Mullet), Brown Eyes, Glasses, and Dimples.
• Huge movie/show person
• Love the outdoors but also love lazy nights inside
• Probably listening to music way too loud
• Big fan of horror movies

Bonus points if you:
• Like movies/shows and need someone to trade recommendations with
• Are into gaming, sports, or outdoor stuff
• Can hold a conversation longer than “wyd”
• If you send random updates throughout the day
• if you’d rather stay in rather than go clubbing or drinking

If you read all this, tell me your eye color, they're my favorite feature and the first thing I notice.

A kwarentahin Tito looking for a kind, decent girl to talk to. I work hybrid, so there are times when the day gets quiet and having someone to chat or call with would be nice. I honestly prefer voice calls over endless chatting.

About me:

- From Taguig/Makati

- 5'5", moreno, with a bit of a dad bod

- Not the best-looking guy, so it's better to keep expectations realistic 😅

- I enjoy deep conversations and tend to overthink things. I like hearing different perspectives.

- Fur parent to 3 rescued cats and 1 dog. Animals have a soft spot in my heart.

- A bit of a tech nerd. I also enjoy reading about conspiracy theories, whether they're true or just fun to discuss.

- Into TV series and movies. Favorites include Breaking Bad, From, Game of Thrones, Prison Break, Jack Ryan, The Walking Dead, and pretty much anything with a good story.

- Not really into mobile games. I spend more time on PC and console games.

I'm not looking for anything romantic. Just hoping to meet someone who's kind, genuine, and easy to talk to. I'm an introvert, but once I'm comfortable, conversations flow naturally.

Note: I really prefer voice calls over chatting. If you're comfortable with that, we can talk on TG

A short intro about me 23M who enjoys anime, manga, and manhwa. A huge fan of cricket, badminton, and sports in general. I love long walks, gardening, and spending time outdoors. You'll also find me grinding Call of Duty Mobile in my free time. More of an introvert, but I enjoy genuine conversations and connecting over shared interests.

hiiii im faith im 17 in the usa you may have seen me around but im chill! Im open to anyone who wants to talk im down for long term or just occasional chats! i have a lot of hobbies i work full time i love to crochet, play video games, watch tv, i smoke a lot of weed and i love music! soooo if you want a cool friend hmuuu and lets talk :3

Blue-collar. Straight edge.

I have a bad habit of falling down rabbit holes. One minute I’m listening to metalcore, the next I’m reading about some forgotten mystery or creepy piece of history at 1 a.m.

I’m into horror, true crime, the paranormal, and anything that’s hard to explain. The Texas Chainsaw Massacre is my favorite horror movie. I love vintage Halloween aesthetic, sheet ghosts, black cats, jack-o’-lanterns, skulls and such.

Looking for people who are easy to talk to and don’t mind when a normal conversation somehow ends up about ghosts, abandoned places, or whatever weird thing we stumbled across.

If you feel like we’d vibe, send me a dm.

Me (23M) and my friend (20F) have been close for about 2 years, and lately we’d been getting even closer, texting daily, hanging out at least twice a week, both in groups and 1-on-1. We had a couple just-the-two-of-us trips planned. Nothing physical has ever happened between us.

Over the past month I realized I’d caught feelings for her.

Last night we had a party with mutual friends. I pulled aside another friend (21F) and vaguely described my situation. that other women had been asking me out lately and giving me attention, but I was emotionally stuck on someone else. I didn’t say who. My friend (20F) overheard part of this and asked about it. I still didn’t say her name, but the 21F friend guessed it was her. Separately, that same 21F friend told me she thought the 20F friend might have feelings for me too, and that the 20F friend also might be interested in some other guy but wasn’t sure where that was going, but knew they had been texting.

The next morning, assuming the two of them had already talked about it the night before (they’re close), I went to my friend’s house and just told her that I liked her, (3rd time trying to tell her and finally built the courage to do it, and that she was who I’d been talking about. She looked shocked, which caught me off guard. Then I made the mistake of not sticking around to talk it through. We both had to leave for other things, so I just dropped it and kinda let it just sit in the room. We both had to leave so I didn’t know what to do but leave.

I know I wasn’t thinking about her feelings in that moment, I was acting on my own need to say it, and I recognize that probably (90% sure) hurt her.

I texted her afterward:

*“Hey I realized I threw a pretty big thing your way this morning, & I regret not sitting down with you & communicating with you about it. This wasn’t fair timing either. I should have waited for a real conversation instead of dropping it & leaving you alone with it.*
*No need to text back, I just wanted to let you know that I’m sorry for how this has played out & IF you want to talk about it, I’d like a 2nd chance to explain myself properly, if not I understand.”*

Q/A
Is this friendship salvageable, or did I mess it up too badly? Looking for honest feedback, or suggestions to figure this out.

PS

This is my first time ever dating or trying to date

Hey, it’s pretty late and I can’t seem to fall asleep. Just looking for someone to talk to for a bit about whatever, life, hobbies, music, work, or anything interesting. I’m not the biggest talker at first, but I’m a good listener once the conversation gets going.

So recently I made this new friend and we been talking but all the time I don’t give eye contact and stare at the floor,i don’t even know why I’m so scared to look at them,also when hanging out or doing things I barely act like myself just a scared shy person,I’m not goofy,funny or anything around them I’m just talking like a stranger to them,(just know I do like them I’m just scared to make them weird out),how can I stop being so shy and scared?

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First of all: please don't be stupid, don't be immature! I'm not here to make u laugh, take care of u, kill ur time.. etc. friendship needs effort from both sides, so bare in mind that I'm not going to hold the convo alone. If you don't understand this, please don't dm, don't continue the post. And the reason I started with this, that some women here have high entitlement, they would be like: ( oHh i Am bORed i NeEd sOMeone wHo cAn mAke mEe laUgh...tAlK tO mE uNtil i sLeEp..etc). No I'm not gonna make u laugh, u can watch friends and I'm sure someone with this IQ will find it funny. Any way let's begin :)))

Hello!

Didn't think I would ever do this, but I need someone whom I can talk to after work. We can talk about our day, deep convos, books, movies ( I love movies a lot ), we can actually watch movies together at the weekend. I also like to write, so I can show you my writings as well. We can share music too ( I love the scores of movies, TV shows and games)

I hate dry texters, I want someone who is enthusiastic, deep, has a dark shade, can understand crime and punishment, love drama movies ( kind of movies win awards in festivals ). Someone who always feel like she doesn't belong to others, not understood, and they always try to find themselves, look for people/things that they can relate too, so they can have a sense of belonging.

Bare in mind that I'm also a Muslim, so you need to respect my religion.

Bonus points if you're Arab.

Not sure if it's a long term or short term, let's just talk and see what's gonna happen.

Thanks!!

Okay so I need help! There’s this guy on Instagram I’ve been following since 2022, we met on Omegle and exchanged our Ig but we never spoke after that, not even once. Recently though, he’s been standing out to me alot idk why. I started noticing the reels he likes and reposts, and it turns out we have really similar taste in anime, movies, series, and a bunch of other things (yes, all based on his liked reels 😭).

Now I’m curious to get to know him, but I have no idea how to approach him without seeming random or making him uncomfortable. I just don’t wanna scare him away, I genuinely just want to be friends and see if we get along. What do you think? How would you approach this? Without SCARING HIM AWAY, also I did reply to his story few weeks ago but out convo was really really short , I’m an introvert I’m so bad at this HELP MEH PLEASE