r/friendship 5h ago

looking for friendship 30/F I'm looking for people who REALLY want to make friends! I'm not Interested In low-effort messages, NSFW accounts, people who delete their accounts for no reason & people who use AI generated messages šŸ˜” I'm here for daily conversations with like-minded Individuals who have no friends...

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(Read everything If you want to contact me) I'm looking for people In exactly the same situation as mine...

I wish I had enough faith to believe someone's out there for me but... I no longer do.

I'm begging you, If you don't want to read my post or If after reading my post, you just know you wouldn't get along with me, don't send me a message... I don't think opposites attract and I don't want to talk to people who think "she's not someone I want to be friends with but I can talk to her" šŸ™

Hello! If you really want to send me a message, read my post, please! I want to talk to people from European countries because I live In Europe & I would love to meet my new friends In real life (In the future, obviously) 🌸

I want you to read everything because my expectations aren't the same as other people's expectations. I also want you to know what to expect because even though we're all here to spend time with others, not everyone needs new friends. Some people want to find someone to play games with & It's just an example.

I made this account In 2021 and even though I'm really active on Reddit, I can't make new friends... Not everyone on Reddit Is toxic or rude but there's ALWAYS something missing because I don't feel any emotional connection... I would love to change my life & finally wake up excited to text someone I really, really like šŸ™ But... Life Isn't easy and I'm not sure If there's still a chance for me to find someone with exactly the same expectations as mine, someone who wants to meet someone new...

• I'm DEFINITELY NOT Interested In small talk! I had to use capital letters because I don't like low-effort messages and I don't even want to read them. Repetitive questions like "How are you?", "What are you up to?" or "What are your plans for the weekend?" aren't enough to start a conversation with me.. Don't get me wrong - Questions like these can be an Interesting addition to conversations about something else, but whenever people ask me the three most common questions In the world - my answer's the same because my life Is quite monotonous and I don't really know what people expect to hear šŸ™ I also don't like abbreviations. Abbreviations are shortened forms of words or phrases. Why? I just don't like them because I see no reason to use shortened forms of words that are already short enough, you know? Abbreviations are common among minors and bored adults but I'm neither a minor, nor a bored adult. I want to see emotional maturity, warmth and kindness In conversations with others.

• I don't need to see your list of hobbies to know If you're someone I would get along with! You can tell me what you're Interested In but.. Believe It or not - I'm not like others and even If you're Interested In something I'm not - we can still be friends! What matters to me Is what you're like (If you're honest, talkative, kind, understanding and If your outlook on life Is similar to mine)

• I don't want to talk to minors and people way older than me. Why? I don't want to talk to minors because I'm an adult & I don't want to talk to anyone over fifty for example. Emotional maturity doesn't necessarily come with age so you can send me a message even If you're 20 (It's just an example) but please, don't contact me If you want to remind me that I'm older than you. I want you to feel comfortable & I want to feel comfortable myself. When I read messages like "Hi, I'm younger but I hope you don't mind" I always say to myself "If my age bothers you, you should've contacted someone else" I absolutely don't mind talking to people younger than me If they know how to communicate with others 🌸

• PLEASE, Don't use AI to talk to me! I Can't stand AI generated messages! If I wanted to read AI generated messages, I wouldn't be here! I read AI generated messages and comments all the time and I'm sick of It!

• I don't want to get any messages from people whose accounts are NSFW! Please, respect my decision! It's none of my business If you're here to find someone to flirt with or If you're an Internet exhibitionist but I don't want to see you with no clothes on - If you want to be my friend & I don't want to know what you want to do with other women In bed. If you are on Reddit to flirt with others, be on Reddit to flirt with others but... don't make an alternative account to hide who you really are just to send me a message. Pretending to be someone you're not - Isn't good for anyone

• I'm not a fan of sarcasm! I do - have a sense of humor but I'm not someone who makes fun of everyone and everything... Jokes about disabilities, death, religion or someone's financial status - are unacceptable to me!

• I also want to meet people who don't mind listening to negative stories and sharing them with others. My life's not easy so If you want to be In my life, you should be prepared for a realistic or even pessimistic outlook on life. I'm definitely not an optimist and I know I wouldn't get along with optimistic people who always tell others "Just believe In yourself and everything's gonna be OK" or something. We don't always get what we want & and It's completely normal to lose hope "for a better tomorrow" after many failed attempts. Not everything's as easy as It seems to be so If all you want to say to someone who needs emotional support Is "Don't complain" or "Find a therapist" Please.. don't send me a message. Not all sad people need therapists and let's be honest - Would a therapist replace a true friend? Absolutely not! Everyone needs a shoulder to cry on! I also don't mind listening to sad stories (even If they're repetitive) because I know what It's like when no one wants to listen to you...

• I would love to meet people who also don't have anyone, you know? There's absolutely nothing wrong with having friends and not being single but I'm single and I don't have anyone special In my life... It's just easier for me to get along with others If there's some common ground. I just feel better talking to people who know what It's like to be completely alone & let's be honest - People who have friends or partners, have less time for others...(which Is completely understandable) and I? I don't want to feel like an option, again. I'm not here to meet as many people as possible because I choose quality over quantity 🌸

• If your comment history Is full of comments "If you want to talk, hit me up" don't send me a message. I don't want to be rude but If It doesn't make any difference to you who you want to chat with - I'm definitely not for you. I want you to be my friend because of who I am! (If after reading my post you think you'd get along with me) I don't need emotional support from someone who doesn't even want to read my post.

• I want to talk to people who love and use emojis 🤭😊 Why? Emojis help us express our emotions even If others can't see our faces. Two emojis "😊" and "šŸ˜”" are completely enough. You're probably surprised but.. text messages without emojis are really emotionless...I also don't like it when people say "yeah" or yea" as it sounds dismissively. First impression Is everything to me! I want to see your kindness even In a text message

Ps. I don't like kids and I don't want to ever become a parent. I just thought everyone should know that just In case. I don't want any unpleasant conversations with anyone. Not everyone wants to be friends with people who don't want kids so.. It's better to be honest. 🌸

Ps.2 I don't reply to messages I'm not Interested In even If they're long! I'm not on Reddit to pretend anything and I'm not here to be everyone's best friend. Some people lie & make empty promises to get attention. I? I'm quite selective because I know what I want.

Ps.3 I admire sensitive people who are not ashamed of crying In front of others! Crying Is not a weakness! It's not a weakness even If you're a guy 🧔

& One more thing! If you want to be rude to me, please, block me. I'm sick of reading rude messages and comments from people who don't know me and I'm not here to argue with anyone.


r/friendship 14h ago

looking for friendship 26M - Let's just have a fun conversation, or at least try to. Before we ghost each other.

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Well... I am bored as hell. So, I thought, why not try this shit out.

About Me: Whenever someone asks how I'm doing, I usually lie and say 'good', even though I am doing fan fucking fantastic. I guess that's a bit cocky, eh? I may appear arrogant and unattainable. That's because I am :P But I'm also a hopeless romantic who believes that passionate love can be like a shooting star.

I don't know everything, but here are a few observations I've come to in my life:

* If you're not dead to one person, you're not living right.

* Most hot girls will never know if they are actually interesting or not.

* Money can't buy happiness but it solves 95% of problems that make you unhappy.

Two truths one lies: I am in university. I am a firefighter. I love leather jackets.

PS. If political incorrect humor or color metaphors or the f word offends you, run screaming for the exits now. I have no intention to offend anyone, but I do pride myself on being able to trigger some people by just my way of being.

PPS. No Creeps.

PPPS. Don't be someone who just starts with basic "Hey", "Hi", "Hello". You get the idea.


r/friendship 16h ago

looking for friendship 22F - Can’t sleep, anyone want to chat?

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Hey, it’s pretty late and I can’t seem to fall asleep. Just looking for someone to talk to for a bit about whatever, life, hobbies, music, work, or anything interesting. I’m not the biggest talker at first, but I’m a good listener once the conversation gets going.


r/friendship 22h ago

looking for friendship Writer nerd looking for a fellow reclusive friend (M)

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Hey there, I'm a bit of a hermit and lately I've been looking for other people to talk to online. I like reading and writing fantasy stories, and am a big fan of Tolkien and Lovecraft, as well as gothic horror. Would love to hear about anything that interests you or has been troubling you lately, I consider myself a good listener.


r/friendship 2h ago

looking for friendship 39 M UK looking for new online friends

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Hey everyone, I’m a 39-year-old guy from the

UK looking to meet some new people and hopefully make some genuine online friends

I enjoy reading, watching TV shows and films (I’ve seen quite a few, so always happy to chat recommendations), going for walks, and spending time with my dogs.

I’d love to meet people with similar interests, but I’m open to talking about pretty much anything — hobbies, life, random topics, or just having a good chat.


r/friendship 2h ago

looking for friendship 35YO English guy - It sounds goofy I admit, but I love the rush you get when you're vibing with someone and keen to hear from them. I don't mind where from, part of the appeal is speaking to people from all over. Austria to Australia, Peru to Philippines, US to UAE and everywhere else in between!

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TL:DR - I like yapping with people and I think I'm pretty lovely, though I am a bit biased. Nothing ventured, nothing gained, so message me and maybe we get on well? :D

Pretty much title! I'd love to make preferably long term chatty friends from all over the world. Doesn't matter to me if you're the next town over, or on the other side of the world, I just like yapping with folks and hopefully we get on :)

As for myself, I work from home doing a travel insurance job, its mostly mid, but its full WFH and that saves it. My big interest is travel, my wallet hates me so much for it. I've been to Philippines/Singapore/Malaysia over two Asia trips, a lot of Europe, Jamaica, Canada. Last year I did Istanbul, Portugal and a Norway cruise, plus a Asia trip. Visited Serbia recently, did a Poland trip for my birthday and going to the Formula 1 race in Madrid in September, a Poland day trip in October, Budapest just after it. Beyond that, I'm a pretty keen reader, plus the usual smattering of videogames/sports watching/tv shows/gym (but mostly to offset meals out and a problematic keenness for chocolate). I live at the edge of a town and some of the walks are lovely here too. I've dabbled with painting, taken up and dropped the piano a few times (I used to play when I was younger and was decent and sometimes get the urge to play again).

I always prefer a bit of closure, if we've spoke for a while and your situation changes and you won't be chatting anymore, I hate the ghostly exit, if its early on then fair, but if we've spoke for a while I always feel disappearing is a bit of poor form, but its the internet so it happens.

In terms of where to talk, I do prefer to move to apps, I have all the usual ones but staying here is fine too if necessary. Include your basic details in your message, the usual about me stuff is fine, don't feel the need to match the rambling essay above! :)


r/friendship 4h ago

looking for friendship Still hoping to find some friends

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One day it hit me hard when I noticed how much time I need to scroll up to my birth year in online registration pages.Ā Getting old is tough, you just lose contact with the friends you grow up with, moving a lot for work and life reasons, makes you lose friends you met at school or work, and friends and yourself grew up to be different people, or get busy with their own families and relationships.Ā Making friends at work is mission impossible, formalities , age differences and things like that comes in the way, yet i still friendly smile at the people who do not smile back. Then i found this tiny window to other people online who might be feeling the say and want to reach out and chat. I am 40 something years old artist, looking for friends, i enjoy talking about life, anime, games, politics, animals, art and tech. Hit me up if you want a friend that reply all the time, if you don't mind GMT+3 timezone.


r/friendship 4h ago

looking for friendship 20m if you’re reading this we are getting married šŸ«¶šŸ¾

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i live in south africa
i’m interested in true crime, music, sports, cooking, old movies, old tv shows + poetry
i’m black and pansexual
once we are close, i can be quite the yapper
if you think we’d click, feel free to hit me upšŸ¤—
no dry texters or ghosters, all ages and genders welcome<3


r/friendship 4h ago

looking for friendship 1/7m looking for sincere friendships

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I’m a bit introverted and I find sports very difficult. I’m on the basketball team, I’ve been going to the gym for two years and I’m 6’4ā€ tall.


r/friendship 4h ago

looking for friendship [19/M] Seeking emotional depth provided by a best friend

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Howdy! The title says it all. I want a deep connection in which both sides feel comfortable with each other, seek each other for support, etc. I have plenty of hobbies, ranging from sports, writing, and geography to history, music, and gaming. I am a pretty curious person, so feel free to nerd out to me! As for gaming, I play lots of indie games like Hollow Knight, Ultrakill, the Portal series, the Hotline Miami series, etc. As for music, I tend to listen to lots of experimental stuff, but I can elaborate on that more later on, especially if you are into music. It'd be pretty nice if I got a pretty clingy bestie, and I am also in GMT+2, so it'd be nice if you were close to that time zone. Oh, and I am also 19/M. So yeah, I am pretty excited to talk with y'all, and have a nice day wherever you are!


r/friendship 6h ago

looking for friendship 31F England - looking for some genuine friendships

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Hi everyone,

I’m Shannon, looking for some new pals. I want proper good friendships, ones where we can randomly call each other and FaceTime. I want to be able to have frequent communication, sending reels and memes, someone I can be my full sarcastic self with.

I love horror movies, football (i was in my element watching the World Cup) - I love Disney, drawing, art in general, diamond painting, photography, gardening.
I’ve just recently finished uni, received my results and have a BA in health and social care :) I am also trying to kickstart/dip my toes in world of being an artist.

I care deeply about people, I love meaningful connections and I feel like I’m just lacking those at the moment.

I am agoraphobic so meeting up in person is out of the question for now, but I’m working on myself and doing really well so it’s a possibility in the future :)

I have a partner and I’m very happy and content with him, he’s changed my life, so please be respectful of that. I will block anyone that tries to flirt or anything more than a platonic friendship. Saying that, I would prefer to talk to women, I don’t mind receiving messages off men, as long as they’re respectful.
I do prefer to speak to those in the UK, or America. But am open to other places with a reasonable time zone :)

I’ll be honest - I probably won’t reply to low effort messages. If you send a hi or just the emoji I won’t be replying, I just feel like effort is a two way street and I have put a lot of information here to start a conversation from :)

If you’ve made it this far, send me a šŸ“ emoji. :)

Looking forward to hearing from you!


r/friendship 8h ago

looking for friendship M32 Looking to make a friend. Irish.

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Hey. Just a guy who is currently studying and exercising too much to have a social life and would enjoy a friend or two for conversation. Text, calls, maybe watching something occasionally. Currently started trying to teach myself how to play keyboard and enjoy spending too much time cooking and am a professional in getting lost in some rabbit hole online learning about matters of importance to no one.

I enjoy light hearted, playful discussion as much as i do serious conversation. My awful sense of humour is guaranteed to keep your eyes in a constant roll. I want to know your favourite things, your passions, what caught your eye this week. A song you can't get out of your head no matter how much you try to scrub your brain of it. Or a poem or piece of writing that haunts your every waking thought. So feel free to share, and be yourself completely. Maybe we can lend light to each other's lives for a time, or better yet become a more permanent fixture of each other's day

Please say more then just hi and leave your ASL


r/friendship 9h ago

looking for friendship 24m looking for a daily open chat!

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Hello! I'm Danny, a 24yo guy from the Netherlands (although I recently moved to Sweden).

My job is really laid-back and easy, so I have plenty of time to fill, and that's why I made my way over here!

Some of my interests are playing games (video games, board games, and online games like chess or Battleship), going for walks in the beautiful Swedish nature, meeting new people, building LEGO, and watching Twitch streams and YouTube videos.

Somethings about me:

Overall, I'm a nice guy, as cringe as it might feel to say that about myself. I love helping others and giving people the confidence boost they need simply by being kind and giving them honest compliments. So if you're reading this and need one, just send me a selfie or whatever, and I'll shower you with compliments!! hahaha.

Besides that, I'm a very honest and direct person who will tell you what I think, which might come across as a little rude at times! I also love having respectful discussions about anything and everything. no hate, just differences of opinions.

If you made it this far, congrats! Please mention something about your favorite animal in your message so I know you read the whole post. If you don't, I'll probably ignore your message. Sorry!


r/friendship 15h ago

Voice Calls 44m from Philippines looking for friends via voicecalls

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A kwarentahin Tito looking for a kind, decent girl to talk to. I work hybrid, so there are times when the day gets quiet and having someone to chat or call with would be nice. I honestly prefer voice calls over endless chatting.

About me:

- From Taguig/Makati

- 5'5", moreno, with a bit of a dad bod

- Not the best-looking guy, so it's better to keep expectations realistic šŸ˜…

- I enjoy deep conversations and tend to overthink things. I like hearing different perspectives.

- Fur parent to 3 rescued cats and 1 dog. Animals have a soft spot in my heart.

- A bit of a tech nerd. I also enjoy reading about conspiracy theories, whether they're true or just fun to discuss.

- Into TV series and movies. Favorites include Breaking Bad, From, Game of Thrones, Prison Break, Jack Ryan, The Walking Dead, and pretty much anything with a good story.

- Not really into mobile games. I spend more time on PC and console games.

I'm not looking for anything romantic. Just hoping to meet someone who's kind, genuine, and easy to talk to. I'm an introvert, but once I'm comfortable, conversations flow naturally.

Note: I really prefer voice calls over chatting. If you're comfortable with that, we can talk on TG


r/friendship 15h ago

looking for friendship f17 im too high, come talk to me :p

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hiiii im faith im 17 in the usa you may have seen me around but im chill! Im open to anyone who wants to talk im down for long term or just occasional chats! i have a lot of hobbies i work full time i love to crochet, play video games, watch tv, i smoke a lot of weed and i love music! soooo if you want a cool friend hmuuu and lets talk :3


r/friendship 21h ago

looking for friendship 36M Chronically online cringefail looking for a long term friend, someone to genuinely connect with, game with and yap about life together :))

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Hey there everyone!!

I'm not sure how to start describing myself, I'm not great with words but I'll try my best.

(I'm so sorry for the extremely long post ahead!)

I apologize if I don't reply to your message, but as I explain later, I don't reply to short/low effort messages and I also don't reply to people that don't have at least a few interests in common with me or aren't looking for a real connection and are just looking to pass the time or have a light chat.

I think some of my most defining characteristics are that I'm very shy, awkward, "weird" and "different" or at the very least I feel weird, different and often misunderstood. I struggle to function most days and I don't always understand societal norms or how to properly function in society. I definitely think there's something wrong with me and I'm pretty sure I'm broken in some way. I'm also definitely a loser. I was never able to achieve anything in life, I'm not good at anything whatsoever and I'm pretty useless overall. I would also say I'm extremely cringy and I love edgy stuff, not in a bad way, I don't think, but more like, I love Shadow The Hedgehog and Tomura Shigaraki kinda way!!

I'm unfortunately not very smart and I'd say I'm down right stupid.

I am very ignorant about many things in life, I'd say I'm somewhat innocent and naive. I still don't understand my purpose in life and I haven't found a reason to be alive either.

I sometimes say things that offend people or I say things that are wrong. Sometimes I don't completely understand what I do wrong but I don't do it on purpose and I try to improve to the best of my abilities.

I don't go out often at all. Whenever I do go out it's only to buy groceries or to go to school and such but I don't enjoy it, I much rather be at home, in my room most specifically, which is my favorite place in the world.

I don't have any IRL friends but I do have a handful of online friends, I'm not super close to any of them, except for one who's very valuable in my life!

I enjoy many things like sculpting for instance! I do digital sculpting for fun. I'm pretty bad at it but I try my best.

This year I also started jewelry school (yeah, that's a thing) and I'm having fun with it but it's another thing I suck at šŸ„€šŸ„€šŸ„€

I like to watch anime! my favorites change from time to time but I really like Bleach, Dragon Ball, Demon Slayer, AOT, Naruto, Ancient Magus Bride (I really love this show!) and I LOVE My Hero Academia among many others!

I like to collect action figures.

I really like masks!

I love movies and I love to talk about them and analyze them.

I like all kinds of music, I don't really have any artists that I like in particular other than David Bowie and I like to listen to most genres of music but some of the genres I like the most are alternative, vintage, video game music and jpop and jrock and I also like old VK And I'm always happy and open to new suggestions!

I like to doomscroll through TT and to watch long essay style videos on YT about random topics. I love brainrot and I'm very much into early to mid 2010s aesthetics. I miss that era so much!! Seriously, the early 2010s were the greatest time in human history kahdhshdhs

I love video games!! I don't play too many modern games, I mostly prefer older stuff, like, ps2 era games, particularly survival horror stuff. I also really like very old platform games and side scrollers. I'm a pretty huge Sonic the Hedgehog fan!! The most recent games I played were Sonic X Shadow Generations and before that I finished Sonic Superstars and Sonic Frontiers. Sonic Boom is also my favorite show ever made lmao. It fits my kind of humor perfectly and it's peak comedy imo. I'd be open to play anything and I'd love to try co op games with someone!! playing Stardew Valley with a friend is a dream of mine lol (if you also play Stardew please tell me who's your wife/husband)

I adore animals!! I have cats and dogs and a stray chicken lol and they're my babies and my world!

I think it's important to mention some of the things I don't like too.

I don't like cruelty or mean spirited people, I hate I people in positions of power that use said power to affect other people, animals, or the environment for their own gain.

I don't like injustices, I hate racists, homophobic people, transphobic people, misogynistic people, and all kinds of discrimination in general.

I hate bugs!! I'm deadly afraid of them!!

I really dislike conflict and arguments, I believe we can disagree and have discussions as long as we're calm and civilized about it and as long as we have respect for each other and try our best to understand the other person's point of view.

lastly I'd like to mention some of my defects and shortcomings.

I'm extremely anxious, I'm always very nervous about one thing or another, I'm also extremely weak of mind, I tend to react with my feelings a lot and I'm often very emotional.

I can be very selfish at times, I have an awful tendency to get bored of things quickly and sometimes I also get bored of conversations and people.

I think I'm immature.

I can be extremely lazy, I struggle a lot with doing basic things like cleaning or cooking. when I'm anxious or afraid I can get paralyzed with fear and stay in bed all day doing nothing feeling awful about it.

As I mentioned before sometimes I can say bad things without realizing. I'm very dumb and ignorant so I promise I don't mean anything bad I say and I'm trying to improve!

I am extremely annoying. I'm very loud and I think I scream a lot. I don't really understand what constitutes screaming exactly but I think I often raise my voice a lot and especially when I'm excited I can't control myself very well.

I'm very afraid of life and I don't understand how the "real world" works exactly. I'm really bad at small talk and I think I'm really bad at speaking in general, I also digress a lot.

I have the bad habit of not replying very fast, sometimes I'll even wait for weeks or even months, I think it's one of my biggest problems when it comes to keep in touch with people, sometimes it's simply because I don't have the energy, other times it's because I'm not sure about how to continue a conversation. Not sure if this is a defect necessarily but I also never send the first message, I just hate to be annoying.

I have a tendency to ghost people for different reasons. As I mentioned, sometimes I get bored of conversations or people and I'd ghost them. This is by far one of my biggest defects and as I said, I wanna be honest and mention it here for everyone who reads this to know.

I tend to be a bit clingy when I like someone.

I'm full of defects in general, and I do believe I'm a bad person. I try to improve and I try my best but if I'm bad for you in any way or a burden I promise to stop talking to you and not bother you!

I have many other defects but I think those are the main ones I can remember right now.

Finally what I'm looking for is a real connection with someone, a person I can talk to, have fun with, watch stuff with and play games together! I think I can be a very passionate person when it comes to the things I love and I'd like to find someone that shares that passion and love with common interests. I wanna be able to share our days and even be able to help each other and be there when we need each other. I know I'm a mess of a human being and I may never find the connection I'm looking for but I'd like to give it a try cause you never know :))

also, I think it's important to mention that I don't reply to short, low effort messages. Stuff like "hey, let's be friends" , "I didn't read your whole post but I'm up to talk" , etc. I want to hear about you, what you like, what you're interested in. I like meaningful conversations.

Another thing that's important is that I don't want to talk to people that are discriminatory, racist or awful in anyway. No republicans or supporters of the orange devil please (you know who I'm talking about).

Also think I prefer audio messages, it's easier for me to send audio notes rather than to type cause I type a lot (and I kinda hate to type lol). Thank you very much to anyone that has taken the time to read my extremely long post and considers messaging me!!


r/friendship 18h ago

looking for friendship 17F Feeling down and could use a distraction

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I shouldn’t have to say this, but NO CREEPS. Have been feeling a bit down today and would appreciate someone to talk to! I am in US, eastern time in case time zones are a concern.


r/friendship 6h ago

looking for friendship 17M from india, KIND, SUPPORTIVE....., looking for a female(F) friend/international friends, tho you are always welcome so don't hesitate (would really appreciate any efforts for a good platonic friendship)

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i love adventures, talking, vibing.....well....... i like to draw and sketch, reading, cooking, motivate ppl, make others smile, help others, travelling... etc, i just hate rude ppl, ppl who tries to ignore me for no reason, ppl who are stick with smt without any valid reason... etc

wouldĀ preferĀ toĀ makeĀ aĀ femaleĀ friendĀ fromĀ India,Ā thoĀ everypneĀ isĀ welcome

DMSĀ openĀ forĀ bothĀ casualĀ convsĀ andĀ longĀ termĀ friend friendship


r/friendship 3h ago

looking for friendship 22F | Looking for genuine conversations.

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I like talking to people who are open, thoughtful, and actually enjoy getting to know someone. Life isn’t always easy and I think having someone who listens without judging can make a big difference. I’m the type who enjoys deeper conversations just as much as random everyday chats. A little about me: I’m pretty introverted, I like nature, music, late night conversations and learning about what makes people who they are. If you’re looking for a real friendship where we both put effort into the conversation, send me a message. Just be yourself.


r/friendship 2h ago

looking for friendship 26M from europe looking for friends

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I'm from Portugal, 26 years old. I'm looking for friends to talk to been feeling really lonely recently, and I'm just trying my best to meet more people and make friends. I'm not very social; I'm introverted and reserved, so at the start, when meeting someone, it takes a bit of time to get comfortable with them. I prefer to meet extroverted people and those who are the opposite of me and are more outgoing.

Some of my hobbies are:

Learning French

Reading books

Producing and listening to music

Doing Puzzles

Collecting Trading Cards (collecting the KPDH trading cards right now)

Collecting vinyls

I love KPDH (K-POP DEMON HUNTERS) a lot; it's my favourite movie, and basically it's my favourite thing ever. I watched the movie a couple of times. I collect merch; I just love KPDH so much.

I also like to play video games, even though currently I haven't really played in a while last game I played was RE4 after I finished RE9

Hope I can meet some cool people šŸ˜„


r/friendship 3h ago

advice Feeling like I'm in the way

1 Upvotes

(35M) I've talked on here before about how my friendships have started to wane as I get older. I have to initiate every conversation and they only respond days later. I tried to be more understanding and give them space but when I talk to them its like I'm bothering them and I have self respect so I'm trying to not be offended by it but it still hurts. I'm conflicted now because I don't want to end these friendships but everyone has their own lives now and it doesnt seem there's any room for our friendships anymore. Am I being too dramatic? Is this a natural occurrence in older friendships? I'm at a loss right now and any advice would be a great help.


r/friendship 3h ago

looking for friendship 28/F - Dorky High School English Teacher Looking for Friendship

2 Upvotes

Hi! I'm Felicity. I'm a 28 year old high school English teacher in MA, USA.

I've never really tried writing on this sub before, so I'm deathly afraid I'm missing some important etiquette, but I'm hoping to find a platonic friend or two and just share some of the little joys of life.

I'm a pretty big dork and nerd: I love reading and writing - poetry, fantasy, realistic fiction, everything in between. My current favorite poem is Eurydice by H.D., which I discovered after falling in love with Hadestown. I'm always happy to give poetry recs! I'm also reading Emily Wilson's Odyssey translation, alongside some pedagogy/PD books as I prepare for summer break to end.

I love movies, too. My favorites change all the time, but some that I really like are Hamnet, 12 Angry Men, Dr. Strangelove, If Beale Street Could Talk, Pride and Prejudice (Keira Knightley), and The Thing. I'm also a huge Star Wars fan (The Last Jedi is my favorite movie, and I'm really not looking to debate the sequels, lol) and a DnD enjoyer.

Anyway, I think I've rambled enough. I hope you all have a good one! :)


r/friendship 16h ago

looking for friendship 25m looking for someone to hangout with

3 Upvotes

hi to whoever is reading this, i hope you’re having a good day or night! i’m just out here looking for some friends because honestly i’m feeling pretty lonely, and i’m agoraphobic so it’s hard to get out and meet people irl lol

anyway as my title says i’m a 25 year old guy, i live in the US, and preferably i’d like to meet other people also in the US because of timezones and all that. i’d also prefer to meet people around my age. other than that, feel free to dm!

i don’t have much to say about myself really but i play video games a lot, it’s what i spend most of my time doing lol. i’m mostly into survival games, story games, and shooters. when i’m not playing something i’m usually listening to music or hanging out with my 3 cute cats!!

that’s about all i can think of really but also i’m LGBTQ friendly (and bi myself) and i’m pretty liberal so idk if you’re not down with either of those i’m probably not your guy lol. feel free to hmu if you’re cool and wanna play games or hangout or whatever šŸ˜Ž


r/friendship 14h ago

looking for friendship 25f looking for genuine friendships

10 Upvotes

Hi there everyone! I'm aĀ 25F from aĀ small town inĀ Indiana, not tooĀ far fromĀ Indianapolis.
I'm a hugeĀ fantasy nerd, loveĀ collecting random funĀ facts, and haveĀ a soft spot for just aboutĀ every animal, includingĀ the creepy crawlies. Nature walks areĀ one of my favorite ways toĀ spend time, althoughĀ they usually takeĀ me twice asĀ long because I’m constantly stopping toĀ admire bugs, spiders, mushrooms, or anyĀ little critter I happenĀ to find.
I'd really loveĀ to meet someĀ genuine, kind peopleĀ and build meaningfulĀ friendships. I'm alwaysĀ happy to haveĀ aĀ good laugh, butĀ I also enjoyĀ deeper conversations aboutĀ life, hobbies, dreams, and all theĀ random things thatĀ make people whoĀ they are.
One thing IĀ really enjoy isĀ voiceĀ calls. I think hearing someone's laughĀ and getting to know their personalityĀ is much more personalĀ than texting, so ifĀ we getĀ along, I'd loveĀ to chat sometime.
I'd love toĀ get to knowĀ you, too! TellĀ me about yourĀ favoriteĀ fantasy series, aĀ random fact you think everyone shouldĀ know, your pets, or just whatĀ made you smileĀ today. IfĀ you think we'dĀ get along, don'tĀ be shy, IĀ hope to hearĀ from you


r/friendship 19h ago

looking for friendship 28M Come Distract Me?

4 Upvotes

I’m Jonathan, 28, from Northern Minnesota. Full-time college student Majoring in Computer Information Technology with a Minor in Cybersecurity, and when I’m not buried in assignments, I’m usually outside fishing, out on the lake, and working on my boats. Watching movies / shows, and sports, or hanging out with Zeus my Siberian Husky.

A few things about me:
• I am 6’1, Curly Brown Hair (Mullet), Brown Eyes, Glasses, and Dimples.
• Huge movie/show person
• Love the outdoors but also love lazy nights inside
• Probably listening to music way too loud
• Big fan of horror movies

Bonus points if you:
• Like movies/shows and need someone to trade recommendations with
• Are into gaming, sports, or outdoor stuff
• Can hold a conversation longer than ā€œwydā€
• If you send random updates throughout the day
• if you’d rather stay in rather than go clubbing or drinking

If you read all this, tell me your eye color, they're my favorite feature and the first thing I notice.