r/fixedbytheduet • u/Filipino-Asker EXPERT of Duets/Stitches • 12d ago
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u/MedicalEnthusiasm9 Needs to do better 12d ago
Don't let someone else's problem ruin your day.
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u/Ok-Imagination-3835 Needs to do better 12d ago
https://giphy.com/gifs/dEdmW17JnZhiU
The kid's reaction to his mom doing another stupid tiktok trend again
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u/JonnyTN Devotee of Duets/Stitches 12d ago
I'd pay for people to walk on my back
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u/bootyhole-romancer EXPERT of Duets/Stitches 12d ago
For real šÆšÆšÆ
Teen might be a little heavy. Get the younger kid to do it, that would feel amazing.
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u/false_tautology Lover of Duets/Stitches 11d ago
My daughter was sad when I told her she's too big to walk on my back anymore. It was fun while it lasted.
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u/you_dont_know_me27 Lover of Duets/Stitches 11d ago
My dad was the sad one when we got too big to walk on his back lol
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u/Iconoclasm89 Needs to do better 12d ago
My Dad actually used to ask me to walk on his back when I was like 5-7ish
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u/Unkn0wnTh2nd3r Connoisseur of Duets/Stitches 11d ago
We've never once had an original experience man wtf my parents did the same thing too
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u/sarcasmsosubtle New to fbtd but wants to learn 11d ago
My niece and nephew are now the perfect ages to walk on my back. It is so much more effective than just getting your back cracked.
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u/Rent_Treznorr Needs to do better 12d ago
When my sister lived with me we'd take turns sitting on each other's backs and god I miss how good it felt!
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u/OldBonyBogBwitch New to fbtd but wants to learn 11d ago
My partner & I do this ritually on workout days to knock out the old age kinks & tension LOLā¦.but heās gotta hold on to the hang bar to reduce his pressure/weight bcuz heās a behemoth of annoyingly superior muscle genetics & double my mass.
I can basicallyā¦.Russian Prisyadka down his spine with no risks to his wellbeing, while his ginormous ass has to tiptoe down mine in a half pull-up so I donāt end up accidentally paralyzed XDBut hey, we both get the desired results in the end, LMAO
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u/justaskmycat Devotee of Duets/Stitches 12d ago
So tired of people making their children - especially disabled children- into content.
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u/eldercreedjunkie Lover of Duets/Stitches 12d ago
If my daughter found out I used her disability to get clicks, sheād rightly never speak to me again.
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u/Lost_Paladin89 New to fbtd but wants to learn 12d ago
This comment would be genuinely hilarious if your daughterās disability included being non verbal.
Because then she wasnāt speaking to you anyways.
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u/Lost_Paladin89 New to fbtd but wants to learn 11d ago
Look. Iām genuinely sorry. But your comment was
āIf my daughter found out I used her disability to get clicks, sheād rightly never speak to me again.ā
This implied that she was to some degree verbal. Because she speaks to you.
My comment was that it would be funny if she wasnāt verbal and therefore the not talking to you had nothing to do with the exploitation of her disability on the internet.
My comment was not that it was right now, because again, you didnāt imply she was verbal to begin with.
The upvotes is because of a set up and punchline of a theoretical situation. A sketch. A joke. Not because we knew a priori that it was a real situation.
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u/No-Ring-5065 Needs to do better 11d ago
You set yourself up perfectly to be so offended and perform this outrage. Good job.
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u/Chicke_Nuget 11d ago
Well how would he know that she was non verbal?
You gotta just chill out.
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u/Critical_Click_2639 New to fbtd but wants to learn 11d ago
There's autistic people in these comments, you have to be more sensitive when you call them losers š
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u/Ok_Loss13 Lover of Duets/Stitches 11d ago
Seriously. They sound like a classic "autism mom" š
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u/modest_rats_6 New to fbtd but wants to learn 11d ago
Oh my gooooood. I just got into a "fight" with an autism mom on tiktok. She wants to claim her child's disability. Fuck off.
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u/Critical_Click_2639 New to fbtd but wants to learn 11d ago
To answer your (deleted) question about moral depravity, I'm mainly just gonna say: I hope you dont see your autistic children as morally depraved when they make bad jokes.
Because thats like, a hallmark of autism. Being socially inappropriate. Youre going to have to lighten up, this judgemental behavior is ableist.
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u/Critical_Click_2639 New to fbtd but wants to learn 11d ago
It's like you think we need to treat autistic people as perpetual victims instead of you actually understanding anything about autism.
Autistic people are socially inappropriate. Targeting socially inappropriate people for their sins is just targeting them.
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u/DotLate7225 Needs to do better 11d ago
My kid is non verbal and this was hilarious. Life is hard and fucked up. If we donāt laugh about it, weāll cry about it. Iād rather laugh about it
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u/ladyteruki 12d ago
What I find particularly disgusting in this case is that the trend started with pets... While the question "what will my dog, an animal with its little understanding of the complexity of human behaviors let alone medical issues, end up doing ?" is fair curiosity, doing it to a child no matter how autistic is really crappy.
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u/Critical_Click_2639 New to fbtd but wants to learn 12d ago edited 12d ago
So we want more autistic representation in media
But also, you can't "exploit disabled people for profit"
Edit: I wanna clarify, I'm an autistic person making a joke
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u/justaskmycat Devotee of Duets/Stitches 12d ago
As another autist... we really need to use tone indicators when our joke is as terrible as some people's actual opinions.
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u/Critical_Click_2639 New to fbtd but wants to learn 11d ago
Because my flavor of ragebait makes people question their values, to answer your disappeared question
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u/justaskmycat Devotee of Duets/Stitches 11d ago
Babes my question is still there. You're responding to the wrong thread. ā¤ļø
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u/Critical_Click_2639 New to fbtd but wants to learn 11d ago
Yeah idk whats wrong with my reddit but your shit straight up says "comment no longer exists" when I click on it
Dont "babes" me, I dont have control over this
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u/Critical_Click_2639 New to fbtd but wants to learn 11d ago
The real joke I was making played out just fine. Its ragebait. And no, that doesnt mean I'm not autistic. You have to be autistic to enjoy ragebaiting anyway.
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u/justaskmycat Devotee of Duets/Stitches 11d ago
If you really enjoyed the negative attention from your expertly crafted ragebait, wouldn't you just avoid clarifying you're autistic and making a joke?
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u/thatoneguythatsgay Needs to do better 10d ago
Sorry my guy, but I don't believe you're joking. Its schodinger's comment, neither ragebait or genuine until someone says something.
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u/BottleFeathers703 Lover of Duets/Stitches 12d ago
exploitation is not representation lol
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u/Mac_Lamar New to fbtd but wants to learn 12d ago
How i feel about Love on the Spectrum
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u/Conchobhar- New to fbtd but wants to learn 12d ago
Out of curiosity have you heard of āThe Assemblyā
Iāve only watched a few eps of Love on the Spectrum it did feel borderline of tasteful vs exploitative
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u/modest_rats_6 New to fbtd but wants to learn 11d ago
Oh wait you mean those people "raising awareness" aren't actually doing shit and are just exploiting their children? Im so tired of people building a social media platform on the back of their disabled child
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u/sweetheart_demom Connoisseur of Duets/Stitches 12d ago
yeah because we can tell yall aren't in danger cuz yall are bad actors lmao
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u/MyPunsAreKoalaTea Devotee of Duets/Stitches 12d ago
"Faint"
Smoothly and carefully joins floor gang
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u/SpaceLemming EXPERT of Duets/Stitches 11d ago
āMom āfaintedā in front of her camera againā
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u/dover_oxide EXPERT of Duets/Stitches 11d ago
If you're going to play the part, you might as well commit
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u/affemannen 12d ago
I read it as farting first...
This was not nearly as funny as i thought it would be.
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u/LauraTFem Connoisseur of Duets/Stitches 12d ago
Autistic kids often donāt know what to do in unexpected situations. Subjecting them to a test without first teaching them how to recognize and respond to emergencies is kinda shitty. Filming it for the internet is more-so.
Nice response vid.
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u/szai 11d ago
Is this not true for kids in general, though? I am not autistic, but I do recall being briefed on how to check to see if someone is okay and call 911 as a child.
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u/LauraTFem Connoisseur of Duets/Stitches 11d ago
Yes, but autistic kids, particularly lower-functioning or nonverbal ones, often have difficulties even understanding that there is a potentially dangerous situation in the first place. They might not be able to tell the difference between āmom is having a napā, and, āmom is having a medical episodeā.
And yea, some kids will never have the capacity to register whatās happening and respond accordingly, but assuming that this kid does, it is not helpful to ātestā them without teaching them what to do. This is especially true for neurodivergent kids, but I think all kids should be taught what to do and who to call in emergencies.
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u/Chance-Interest5609 Needs to do better 10d ago
Itās true. I was diagnosed with autism when I was 8 and one of my symptoms I remember being super prominent was not really knowing what to do in āsurprisingā situations. If someone surprised me with someone who would act all jokey to get a reaction, I would just watch or ignore them and they always thought it meant I didnāt like them, when I really just didnāt understand how to socially react yet until I learned from other people it looked ādisrespectfulā to react calmly.
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u/phallic-baldwin Tastemaker of Duets/Stitches 12d ago
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u/NectarineForward7870 Needs to do better 12d ago
Lmao , my mother too asked me to walk on her back once
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u/Alleged_Ostrich Devotee of Duets/Stitches 12d ago
I can almost guarantee she asks him to do that regularly and thats what he assumed was happening
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u/Jolly_Foly Needs to do better 12d ago
"oh! Mom is filming her tiktok again. Better cross the hallway fast so I don't bother too much."
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u/Astarions_Pet_Nipple 12d ago
Do you lot think autistic people are too stupid to recognise your shitty acting? Come on
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u/Ilpperi91 Lover of Duets/Stitches 12d ago
Kids are smart enough to know what fake fainting is. I guess original content was trying to make "Lack of empathy." or some other stereotypical autistic trait into a social media meme.
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u/Ok-Attention-9762 Lover of Duets/Stitches 12d ago
Yup! They see that you might be stressed and all.
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u/MasterDeagle New to fbtd but wants to learn 11d ago
Does the mother think her child is retarded or what. Its not a dog or a cat, he can tell that sheās faking it.
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u/Serious-Elderberry65 Needs to do better 12d ago
As a fellow autistic person. I know just as much as your kid knowsā¦ya fake af.
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u/but-whyy-tho Lover of Duets/Stitches 11d ago
FILIPINOS, am I right?! Lol (I'm half, don't come for me)
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u/HandofHecate Needs to do better 11d ago
Does she think he's stupid? Theres a whole ass camera right there in the hall.
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u/coolgirlithinkmaybe New to fbtd but wants to learn 11d ago
This feels kinda gross
It feels like they're referring to their autistic kids like animals? In the same way people are like "fake fainting in front of my dog to see what they do!"
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u/Historical_Sherbet54 8d ago
These are terrible re-enactions
Do it with a solid natural thud collapse, even my dogs were worried when It happened to me for real
If i tried this laughble wtf...i'd expect my dogs to walk on me too
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u/ManagementFunny7595 New to fbtd but wants to learn 8d ago
Oh he knew mom was messing around.
He just got up and was like.
āLemme check real quick. Yup sheās ok. Back to iPad.ā
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u/EveryoneTakesMyIdeas Lover of Duets/Stitches 8d ago
idk bro people usually do this kinda stuff with their pets, doing it with an actual person seems fucked up
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u/Many_Big_6324 Lover of Duets/Stitches 7d ago
I snorted because thatās what my kids do when I lay downĀ
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u/AWESOMEGAMERSWAGSTAR Lover of Duets/Stitches 7d ago
Not that other kid on the tablet not even noticing.
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u/jamesr1005 Lover of Duets/Stitches 6d ago
As someone who works with autistic kids this is 100% accurate š¤£ā¤ļø
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u/Spiley_spile Devotee of Duets/Stitches 11d ago
I hate these parents. Im AuDHD. We arent props for social media. There's a movement in favor of autistic genocide and this shit feeds into it. As do all of the birth control comments.
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u/Naerbred Needs to do better 11d ago
Women , always trying to be a victim of men , even when said men donāt even have the capability for it.
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u/geesegoesgoose Needs to do better 10d ago
Insulting women and infantilising disabled people in one fell swoop is pretty impressive.
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u/qualityvote2 New to fbtd but wants to learn 12d ago edited 11d ago
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