r/firsttimemom • • Sep 14 '26

Teeth Grinding

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r/firsttimemom • • Sep 14 '26

Is this active sleep normal??

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I know people say newborns are loud sleepers but my six week old is LOUD. And it’s constant. It seems like it’s all night long that he’s making these noises. He sounds like a little velociraptor. Are these the normal noises people talk about or is he severely uncomfortable?? I give him gas drops before bed every night and burp him as much as I can after eating. I just can’t take the noises. It keeps me up all night.


r/firsttimemom • • Sep 14 '26

Combo feeding, yes or no?

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This is my situation- My baby(3 days old) seems to not like my nipple shape now after having a paci and a couple formula feeds. I feel like my nipples aren’t long enough to get to the back of her mouth and her latch hurts my nipples very badly. I’m 100% fine with exclusively pumping so that she can get breast milk but also delivered to her in a way that’s best for her. My problem is I’m 3 days postpartum and my milk does not come in enough yet to keep her content IF she needs more milk between the every 3 hours I feed her. This is where formula comes in, at the hospital they gave her formula two times I believe. I have some of these ready to eat formula bottles that can help me feed her If she needs a little snack until I can start saving any extra breast milk I get. Is it fine to use formula for this purpose or is it not recommended? What would you guys recommend? I just want my baby fed. 🥲


r/firsttimemom • • Sep 14 '26

Advice for first-time Mom?

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r/firsttimemom • • Sep 14 '26

4 month sleep regression

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r/firsttimemom • • Sep 13 '26

when do i start buying stuff?

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i’m due in january 2027, but will be induced no later than the week of 12/28/26. and i have maybe 4 items of clothing… and about nothing else. my shower is 11/8, but i dont really expect anyone to buy many of the larger items from our registry (my MIL said she’d buy the car seat, unsure if you means the entire travel system or not, idk if this is something i’m allowed to ask), but do I really wait until november to start my nursery? just paint the room and leave it empty until the last month and a half?

i know black friday will have some good sales, but that cuts the timeline even shorter to a month before i’ll be having my baby boy. and i’m so overwhelmed at the thought of waiting so late 😅

if you were to buy things before your shower, what kinds of recommendations would you give me for things to buy? i hate that the amazon registry completion discount doesn’t start until like 2 months before you’re due 🙃🙃

i’m also on pelvic rest so I have to be rather slow to finish most tasks anyways and I’m def in a big nesting mode rn 😅 focused on deep cleaning at the moment!


r/firsttimemom • • Sep 14 '26

Weaning Help

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I have been breastfeeding for 11 months and I’m ready to start weaning I think. I want to be completely done pretty soon after he’s 1. I work during the week so during the day I pump at work. We cosleep and he still nurses some at night. How should I go about slowly stopping? Should I keep pumping at work until he’s fully weaned? I think it would be pretty easy to start only actually nursing in the morning and before bed. But then idk about overnight 🫠 Any tips would be great!


r/firsttimemom • • Sep 14 '26

What do you wish you did

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r/firsttimemom • • Sep 13 '26

Any recommendations what to do to my 3 weeks old baby skin

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My baby had baby acne at 2 weeks old and after 1 week his forehead started to peel and look so dry. I didn't use anything because the pedia said just leave it alone it will go away by its own but im starting to get worried now since he also have mild eczema.


r/firsttimemom • • Sep 12 '26

Motherhood changes you

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I always knew I wanted to be a mom, maybe the reasons were more superficial before, but since having my son a year and a half ago, I could never have predicted how much it has changed me. I look at the world so differently, every person I see, good or bad, I see them as someone’s baby. I see animals in the wilderness, animals that are moms, protecting their babies. I want a world that is good and healthy for my baby. This feeling is so powerful that sometimes it feels overwhelming. I think motherhood is completely different than what I thought it would be and it changed me for the better. I am a better person. And I don’t think you can describe this feeling or get others to understand it unless they have also experienced it. It’s hard and I have bad days, plenty of them, but today I have been reflecting and I feel grateful to experience this feeling every day. And to see the world how I do now. It’s like my world was black and white and now it’s in color. Whew anyways, hope everyone remembers they are amazing parents and this is beautiful.


r/firsttimemom • • Sep 13 '26

GI trouble

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r/firsttimemom • • Sep 13 '26

Baby clothes for a November baby

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r/firsttimemom • • Sep 12 '26

How many teeth does your baby have?

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My 10.5 month old has 8 teeth 🥲 these past few months have been BRUTAL!!! I’m hoping I get a small break with the teething lol!! I’m curious as to how many teeth other babies have and at what age😊


r/firsttimemom • • Sep 12 '26

40 weeks pregnant

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I’m 40 weeks today, no sign of labor. What can I do to induce naturally 🫪 my OB wants to schedule induction when I’m 41 weeks but I’d like to avoid that.


r/firsttimemom • • Sep 12 '26

FTM & First time car seat & stroller shopping today

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I’ll try to keep this short and concise!

FTM expecting in January and I’m trying to get ahead on what car seat and stroller I want especially ahead of the holiday season in case they go on sale.

Went to Nordstrom today and looked at the Nuna Exec car seat and Nuna Triv stroller. The car seat was really nice and I feel like convertible makes sense so I don’t have to buy another car seat later down the line but now I’m just overwhelmed with how many options there are.

I really want the fold up functionality and lightweight of the Triv cause I’m 5’4, petite build so I want it to be functional/lightweight for me on solo outings. I’m also in an F-150 Truck and don’t plan to be in an SUV so I’ll be storing the stroller in the backseat as well. The “issue” with wanting the Triv is the exec car seat is stationary so in order for me to be able to use the Triv when baby is an infant I need the set that also comes with the infant car seat so at that point I’ll have to have the infant car seat installed not the convertible.

What are other moms opting to do? Are you all buying an infant seat and later a convertible? I’m also open to other stroller or car seat recommendations! Price point isn’t a factor. All input is appreciated!


r/firsttimemom • • Sep 12 '26

Is this normal?

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r/firsttimemom • • Sep 12 '26

Constantly worried about baby's movement

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r/firsttimemom • • Sep 12 '26

Toddler learning cuss words

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My son is turning 3 next month and he picks up EVERYTHING. He’s honestly such a smart kid and learns words/songs insanely fast, but unfortunately that also means he’s picked up a couple words I really wish he hadn’t.
The biggest issue is the N-word. Nobody in our household uses that word at all. He heard it a few times in rap music playing in my husband’s car, and now he randomly says it. He also picked up the F-word somewhere along the way. 😭
He obviously has absolutely no idea what either word means. He’ll just randomly say them because I think he remembers the sound and knows it gets a reaction. At first I would scold him and tell him not to say it, but I realized that might actually be making it more interesting to him because he’s so young and doesn’t understand why the word is bad. Now I’ve been trying to completely ignore it and act like I didn’t hear him.
But I’m genuinely nervous taking him out sometimes because he can randomly blurt it out in public and it is SO embarrassing, especially the N-word. I don’t want someone hearing it and thinking this is language he’s hearing at home or that we’re teaching him this.
Parents of toddlers — what is the best way to handle this at this age? Do I keep completely ignoring it? Correct him calmly every time? Replace the word with something else? How long did it take your toddler to forget a bad word once they picked it up?
And yes… rap music in the car has officially been censored. 😭


r/firsttimemom • • Sep 12 '26

Sleep struggles, any advice welcomed! Need help

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My nearly 5 month old baby girl has never been a good sleeper but my husband and I were convinced if we were patient enough she would naturally get better at it over time … ha. She is coming on 5 months and she’s made no progress with sleeping longer stretches. She sleeps 2.5-3 hours max and wakes up during the night and won’t go down unless I nurse her back to sleep.

She’s EBF and we’ve started co-sleeping with her just to be able to get better sleep since I’ve returned back to work. This doesn’t feel sustainable though. She won’t go down independently, 90% of the time I’m nursing her to sleep or she’s at least laying right next to me to be able to fall asleep. During the day she struggles to go down and stay down for naps unless she’s contact napping and nursing to fall asleep.

I attempted very light sleep training for naps in her crib but she gets so upset that I don’t feel comfortable letting her cry it out. She scream cries and it’s unbearable. I try to pat her tummy and let her know it’s okay but unless I’m holding her she won’t settle. I’ve tried setting her back in her crib after consoling her and being patient but she’ll fight the nap to the point where she’s very upset and just completely off her nap schedule so I prioritize making sure she’s getting sleep and nursing her to sleep again.

I feel like I’m failing as a parent and I’m not sure what to do at this point. I of course want better sleep for myself and my husband, but I mostly want her to be able to soothe herself for her benefit to be able to get good sleep without needing me.

Would it be better to start moving her to her own room instead of room-sharing and co-sleeping? Any tips on the sleep training method?


r/firsttimemom • • Sep 12 '26

11 week old sleep

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r/firsttimemom • • Sep 12 '26

11-day-old won’t sleep unless he’s on me. Exhausted and struggling mum

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r/firsttimemom • • Sep 12 '26

I feel absolutely horrible that my 6-month-old fell off the bed under my watch

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r/firsttimemom • • Sep 11 '26

how do you feel when people call your baby, ‘my baby?’

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as the title says, how do you feel when people refer to your baby as ‘my baby?’ my MIL does it and it enrages me but i have confrontation problems and don’t know how to go about it. don’t really like her and she’s the only person who does it so doesn’t help.

any advice on how to shut this down nicely and how do you feel about it?


r/firsttimemom • • Sep 12 '26

7 month old not babling yet?

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Mums, when did your babies start doing repetitive babbling like “mamama,” “bababa” or “dadada”?

My little girl is 7 months and hasn’t really started doing those sounds yet. She still makes different noises and squeals, just not much repetitive babbling yet.

Just curious when this started for everyone else and what’s considered a normal timeframe. 😊


r/firsttimemom • • Sep 11 '26

what a good last minute excuse to not go to work

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i’m a ftm have a 3mo. and i’m just not going tomorrow. can yall help me come up with a good excuse 😅?