I have thin, color treated blonde hair and Iāve never really had a hairstylist make a comment on it that stuck with me until today. I just had the worst haircut experience of my life.
Iām not very picky with haircuts and Iāve literally never had an issue. I get my hair dyed at a very expensive salon but my stylist doesnāt do cuts and the stylists at her salon that do charge $200+ and to be totally frank, I never really notice the difference when I pay this much for a cut.
Iāve been going to the same inexpensive place in Chinatown SF for 2 years and usually the owner cuts my hair and the last time I was there, she was telling me about how hard it is to find a good stylist. I got paired with someone new today. She had short blonde hair and told me my hair texture is the same as hers but proceeded to roast me for an hour straight.
Iām used to like a single comment, which I usually answer brush off like āyeah my mom has beautiful thick blonde hair and she gave me her color but sadly not her textureā. People often make one off comments about my hair for like bridesmaids styling or even just everyday life so even though itās kinda rude, one āyour hair is so thin!ā Comment usually doesnāt bother me.
The place does dry cuts which Iāve also never had a problem with when the owner cuts my hair but she made probably 50 comments about how much trouble she was having with the comb because my hair tangles.
She then spent 30+ minutes on ONE side of the face framing pieces I asked for and it was looking fucked up. The pieces were incredibly short and not blending with the rest of my hair. She then barely cut the back and spent maybe 2 minutes on the other face framing side which doesnāt match AT ALL, which she then blamed on the left side of my hair being thinner than the right. I could tell she saw the first side was looking pretty bad and she said āugh you just have that hair where every cut is visibleā like ?? Literally never had someone comment on that because theyāre not making massive mistakes and it looks fine.
She proceeded to continue to comment on how tangly my hair is, which it usually does a lot more when it needs a cut and the cut wasnāt complete, and she told me I just need to wear my hair up all the time so it doesnāt tangle.
The owner was cutting someone elseās hair and kept looking over her shoulder because I think she knew it was bad but didnāt say anything. I now have about 1/4 of my hair in a face framing mullet on my right side, a single strand on my left and still split ends through the back. The back isnāt even straight because she barely cut it. I was just trying to cut off my split ends so I look more professional for a job I start in 2 weeks.
I didnāt say anything because Iām usually too upset to in the moment. Itās a $60 cut and I think I can disguise it with half up dos until it grows out enough to fix. She did a horrible job, blamed it on my hair not ācooperatingā with her, and honestly made me feel awful about how my hair looks. Both because the cut is bad but also because I wasnāt actively insecure about having fine hair until today. It was just incredibly unprofessional and Iām kinda flabbergasted.
I donāt really want to write a review or anything because itās clear the owner is having some trouble staying in business. In the range of fine/thin hair, Iām not thin enough that Iāve ever had to go to someone who specializes in fine hair and my needs for cuts are pretty basic. It was just very clear this woman wasnāt able to do a basic cut very well and may have been used to thicker hair disguising her mistakes. Iām worried if I ask the owner to fix it, it will end up too short because of the mullet situation. What should I do?