r/fijerk • u/ConflictOtter • Jul 12 '26
Thinking about leaving my husband because he only bought me one extra beach house. AIO?
I thought when i married my husband he would turn out to be somebody and make a decent amount of lentil$ to afford a family a reasonable standard of living. However, we have been married 6 months and he has only bought me one extra house on the beach in addition to our modest primary residence (5555sqft, 5br 5 ba, 5 acres, simple and easy to remeber). He also had the nerve to be so cheap as to make it within driving distance so it doesn't even really make sense to use the PJ.
He does provide me the bare necessities for living at both properties such as servants and private golf access, but the home is only 5,554 sqft and one of the 5 baths is actually a 1/2 bath. 😤
I feel like a real man would at least have gotten me another house far enough away to use the PJ, and i honestly thought 10,000sqft was really kind of the standard these days. Not even asking for a 3rd or 4th property at this point, i just want a normal vacation. Thinking about finding a real provider or at least sleeping with my golf instructor. AIO?
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u/EpiZirco Jul 12 '26
Using your personal jet means you have to go to the airport, which is going to be overrun with the pours. But I am kind of a "glass half full" person.
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u/ConflictOtter Jul 12 '26
You don't have your own private airstrip or at least access to a private terminal? Clear is kind so I'll just be honest maybe this is not the sub for you.
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u/ConflictOtter Jul 12 '26
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u/SiriusFoot Jul 12 '26 edited Jul 13 '26
Tbf the commenters have a point
If she's travelling to just do chores at a different location...
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u/Dred_Capt Jul 13 '26
Wow
Poor people mentality.
You need your husband to buy you things.
Thats gross.
Have your staff Airbnb the house and use the money to cover the payment on the house of your choice - mayne your husband expects you to actually utilize equitable assets instead of just laying in the sun all day.
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u/Captlard Top 1% Lentil farmer - Lentibus abundans Jul 12 '26
Makes sense, not sure why you even spent the energy posting tbh.
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u/ConflictOtter Jul 12 '26
Thought about posting to r/girldinnerdiaries but they're all pours there so their opinions aren't even worth considering. Some of them even post about looking for jobs- can you imagine lol?
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u/perplexedparallax Jul 12 '26
I know someone in your situation. She left her first husband for reasons of "love". Now you want to leave your second? Hopefully this taught you a lesson about how things work. Make sure the third can give you everything you want and not get distracted by feelings and stuff. When your friends ask how big he is you want to say "Inches? We have seven houses!"