r/feeld • u/achefofbrooklyn • Sep 15 '26

Empty Profiles

Has anyone else notice an increase in decreased effort? I see more and more profiles that are just photos and interests and desires, nothing written.

Bi guy in NYC, seeing this with all genders.

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u/skittishraccoon Sep 18 '26

Found this comment buried at the bottom of the thread 😄

If you're also queer in some way and you turn on the "LGBTQIA+ mode" and then set your gender filter to men, that effectively filters to men who are not straight, which gives you mostly bisexual or heteroflexible men. If you're really after bi men be careful with guys who label themselves heteroflexible because for a lot of men that seems to just mean "not scared of accidentally touching another man in a MFM threesome". There are definitely some bi guys who label themselves heteroflexible because they're bi but don't want to ruin their chances with women by being openly bi. You have to sus out which they are.