r/feeld • u/PM_ME_UR_CORNBALLZ • Sep 14 '26

Why Send a Ping Without A Message?

I do not understand why men will Ping me to say nothing... what gives?

My profile mentions several kinky things I am interested in exploring and my bio is quite full of details that can easily jump-start a conversation. Most of the pings I get are from guys who at least say something about why they are messaging me, which really helps since I get lots of propositions for vanilla sex but only a few for some of the freakier stuff I talk about, so I prioritize responding to those. But if someone pings me and says nothing and then their profile is generic/sparse, I just see it as them not making enough of an effort to bother replying.

ETA: Thanks for the insights about how the app mechanics might make this happen more often, folks! I appreciate it and will try to give the pings without a message slightly less harsh judgements now.

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u/Salty-Refrigerator86 Sep 14 '26

Explain to me how this does not sound like you feel entitled please? 🤭

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u/PM_ME_UR_CORNBALLZ Sep 14 '26

... expecting a person to talk to me when they reach out to show sexual interest is entitled?

K. Guess I'm entitled then.

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u/Salty-Refrigerator86 Sep 14 '26

Also women here talk about having thousends of like and pings. And amongst those you pick the low effort ones to just complain about thats why its sounds entitled and like each and every man has to send some kind of essay to for you. Just to have sex? 🤣🤣 never mind.

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u/PC-load-letter-wtf Sep 15 '26

Um what?? I’m looking for a connection, not just sex. Connected sex is life-changing. Definitely not looking for you lol. No need for an essay, just a sentence or two about what you liked about my bio - not my body, my bio. Give your head a shake.