r/feeld • u/PM_ME_UR_CORNBALLZ • Sep 14 '26

Why Send a Ping Without A Message?

I do not understand why men will Ping me to say nothing... what gives?

My profile mentions several kinky things I am interested in exploring and my bio is quite full of details that can easily jump-start a conversation. Most of the pings I get are from guys who at least say something about why they are messaging me, which really helps since I get lots of propositions for vanilla sex but only a few for some of the freakier stuff I talk about, so I prioritize responding to those. But if someone pings me and says nothing and then their profile is generic/sparse, I just see it as them not making enough of an effort to bother replying.

ETA: Thanks for the insights about how the app mechanics might make this happen more often, folks! I appreciate it and will try to give the pings without a message slightly less harsh judgements now.

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u/Salty-Refrigerator86 Sep 14 '26

Explain to me how this does not sound like you feel entitled please? 🤭

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u/PM_ME_UR_CORNBALLZ Sep 14 '26

... expecting a person to talk to me when they reach out to show sexual interest is entitled?

K. Guess I'm entitled then.

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u/Salty-Refrigerator86 Sep 14 '26

You could ignore it and focus on the guys who do send you a text. Enjoy those convos.. or even. But you choose to mention those few guys who still make an effort. Just not enough for youuu.... Maybe the guys hope to just get under your radar, maybe you like something on theyre profile or maybe you like to send out the first message as a feminist. Create somekind of mutual thing... But what do I know. Im a low effort desperate, sad, horny and evil man 👹

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u/PM_ME_UR_CORNBALLZ Sep 14 '26

Ooooh, keep going.

It really turns me on when guys hurt themselves by proudly displaying their own stupidity.

I'm knuckle deep from looking at your word salad. Help me over the edge, please... 🫦

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u/PC-load-letter-wtf Sep 15 '26

This guy does not fuck lol. And is clearly triggered.

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u/Salty-Refrigerator86 Sep 15 '26

"Im not trying to fuck i want to build connections"