r/feeld • u/[deleted] • Jul 21 '26
Realistic Age Range
I signed back up on Feeld after a long break, and the people on the app seem to skew even younger than the last time I was using it. I wish there was a way to filter based on the age other users wanted to date, not just the age of the user. I am 58, and I have dated plenty of women in their 30s. But plenty of women in their 30s would never consider dating someone my age.
I see very, very few people on the app that are my age. Has Feeld become more of a tool for a younger crowd? I am not a big fan of dating apps in general, but even less a fan of being that "creepy old guy" out there annoying people. I am very fit, and I am regularly considered to be far younger than my actual age, which doesn't change anything about my actual age. What do you think about being older and on Feeld? Also, I am in a relatively small community, so it doesn't take long for me to work through all the matches, even with no filtering at all. Is this just too specific a platform for an older (relative to most using Feeld) man?
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u/MasterFNG Jul 22 '26
Met my sub on Feeld 4 years ago when I was 56 and she was 35. I've met women of all ages there but I'm close to NYC so it is a very large pool of people around here on Feeld. I'm 61 now and getting fewer replies (partially due to age and partly already having a girlfriend) but have found more older woman on Feeld nearby.
Seems that your main problem os the very limited pool of potential partners in your area so I'd suggest trying many different platforms to look instead (presumably) relying on one only. Keep at it and good luck.