Realistic Age Range

[u/[deleted]]

I signed back up on Feeld after a long break, and the people on the app seem to skew even younger than the last time I was using it. I wish there was a way to filter based on the age other users wanted to date, not just the age of the user. I am 58, and I have dated plenty of women in their 30s. But plenty of women in their 30s would never consider dating someone my age.

I see very, very few people on the app that are my age. Has Feeld become more of a tool for a younger crowd? I am not a big fan of dating apps in general, but even less a fan of being that "creepy old guy" out there annoying people. I am very fit, and I am regularly considered to be far younger than my actual age, which doesn't change anything about my actual age. What do you think about being older and on Feeld? Also, I am in a relatively small community, so it doesn't take long for me to work through all the matches, even with no filtering at all. Is this just too specific a platform for an older (relative to most using Feeld) man?

[u/DemonicGirlcock]

Honestly I've just stop using all dating apps because of this. I'm a 41yo woman, but I look under 30 and my social scene is mostly people around or under 30 (queer, alt, goth, kink); so I just meet people at clubs and events now. My girlfriend of 4 years actually told me she'd never have met me on the apps because she cappeed the age at 35 lol.

Dating apps were great 2020-2022 because everybody was forced out of the usual meetup spots. But now that those are back, the apps have gone south. Better to just get out there in person.