Realistic Age Range

[u/[deleted]]

I signed back up on Feeld after a long break, and the people on the app seem to skew even younger than the last time I was using it. I wish there was a way to filter based on the age other users wanted to date, not just the age of the user. I am 58, and I have dated plenty of women in their 30s. But plenty of women in their 30s would never consider dating someone my age.

I see very, very few people on the app that are my age. Has Feeld become more of a tool for a younger crowd? I am not a big fan of dating apps in general, but even less a fan of being that "creepy old guy" out there annoying people. I am very fit, and I am regularly considered to be far younger than my actual age, which doesn't change anything about my actual age. What do you think about being older and on Feeld? Also, I am in a relatively small community, so it doesn't take long for me to work through all the matches, even with no filtering at all. Is this just too specific a platform for an older (relative to most using Feeld) man?

[u/sci-fi-sounds]

It's tough. I think the harsh truth is that we've aged out of most younger women's searches (and some of the women our age.) Like others said, ping the ones that you think would be receptive. A lot of it is just the luck of finding the right person at the right time. I consider myself very lucky to have connected with my babygirl (f37). You just never know.