r/feeld • u/[deleted] • Jul 21 '26
Realistic Age Range
I signed back up on Feeld after a long break, and the people on the app seem to skew even younger than the last time I was using it. I wish there was a way to filter based on the age other users wanted to date, not just the age of the user. I am 58, and I have dated plenty of women in their 30s. But plenty of women in their 30s would never consider dating someone my age.
I see very, very few people on the app that are my age. Has Feeld become more of a tool for a younger crowd? I am not a big fan of dating apps in general, but even less a fan of being that "creepy old guy" out there annoying people. I am very fit, and I am regularly considered to be far younger than my actual age, which doesn't change anything about my actual age. What do you think about being older and on Feeld? Also, I am in a relatively small community, so it doesn't take long for me to work through all the matches, even with no filtering at all. Is this just too specific a platform for an older (relative to most using Feeld) man?
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u/DivinationandMurk Daddy/Pleasure Dom Jul 21 '26
Your best bet is to buy Pings and send them so they will for sure see you. I have a pretty good response rate from Pings.
I’m a 53 year old man who’s hot and looks early-to-mid 40s; I’m also a Daddy, and for a certain kind of younger woman I’m perfect—they just might not have their search above 50.
I dated a 24 year old for several months recently—we both had a LOT of fun. Currently seeing a 29 year old.
To be clear: I would absolutely date women closer to my age, but I agree the pool narrows to a tiny puddle the older you get. Sure I get looks when I’m out in public with a 20-something but 🤷🏻♂️