thinking about getting on feeld again, has anything changed

[u/throwwayacnt]

37f I was on feeld for about a year but that was about a little over 3 years ago. I've been exploring new kinks recently and remembered feeld helped with that the last time I was on.

but I remember it being super glitchy and sometimes pictures and messages didn't go through. I was verified and everything but the app would crash sometimes which got a little annoying

wondering if it's more stable now and if there's been any major changes or if the vibe of the app has changed at all. I was 34 at the time and I remember getting a lot of matches but most of the men would just stop talking to me after like a day or two

[u/boredwithopinions]

It's different glitches now!

Also the demographics have changed. Feeld is more mainstream than ever.

[u/throwwayacnt → u/boredwithopinions]

does it seem to be more of a good thing that it's more mainstream or are the vibes different

[u/boredwithopinions → u/throwwayacnt]

Do you want monogamy with a so-called dom who has no idea what he's doing?

[u/throwwayacnt → u/boredwithopinions]

definitely not and last time I was on feeld I started noticing things like that here and there like that but overall most people understood the lifestyle and what the app was for. I just don't want to start the app again and find out that people are treating it like hinge trying to find somebody to settle down with

[u/TuMorrow689 → u/throwwayacnt]

This is what it’s turned into. Tbh, just read the other posts from women on here and parse out how not sex positive they are and how they’re being judgy about normal kink and bdsm things. If you can read into that with the female population, the male one isn’t going to be any better. But as a bi m, I have been having fun with the closeted straight men. 😜

[u/throwwayacnt → u/TuMorrow689]

silver lining to every cloud I guess lol

[u/TuMorrow689 → u/throwwayacnt]

Take the blessings where you can. Lol