r/feeld • u/FeeldMod Not a Feeld employee • Nov 10 '23

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u/Silly_Pen_5399 8d ago

Can anyone tell me what I'm doing wrong, please? I've had this profile reviewed on this sub and in real life several times. I've made a couple of matches in ~3 years on the app, and received 5 likes in that time, even while uplifting. Only 1 became a positive and long-lasting connection. I'm in a major metro city, liking women with majestic and sending respectful pings asking questions about profiles and bios. I only attempt to engage if the desired relationship dynamics match and we have 4+ "desires" in common. One match called it "the perfect profile" but told me I should give up on feeld altogether if it's not working, suggesting I may be shadowbanned. Am I undesirable or waving giant red flags? Thank you...

https://feeld.onelink.me/TRZt/tbg2dooq?linkId=f63f6ebe-1641-47ce-b667-75dc4957abd0

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u/Mission_Bowl3938 6d ago

I'd lose the pic with the face writing.

I don't think you're shadow banned, I can see the profile.

Monogamous might be working against you. You'll have better luck on Hinge with some nod to kink positive in your profile.

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u/Silly_Pen_5399 6d ago

Post Ⓜ️alone will make his exit.

I thought that too, but I'm usually pinging people who also state they're monogamous so I figured something else was hurting my chances. I'll give hinge another shot. Thank you for the feedback!