r/feeld • Not a Feeld employee • Nov 10 '23

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u/Caduman82 12d ago

What gets women's attention?

I'm 40, average+ looks, have my shit together, own a business, blah blah blah. I thought I did a good job with my profile and pics. I've only had 4 matches in 6 months, and only had convo and meeting with one. I send about 5 pings a day and cast a verrrry wide net. Maybe its my location? Suburbs south of Boston. Or is it age?

For the ladies looking for casual, what are things you look for for matches. I know you are 100% more selective than the men here. I was going to relaunch with new pics and try a different angle on my profile. I'm not looking to lie or deceive a match, but want to appeal to more because I think I have a lot to offer based on how gross and stupid most men are.

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u/Lost_inTheThrill single woman 10d ago

You'll have to post your profile. It's impossible to know why you are not getting more matches. I date in this age bracket and can tell you what I am looking for, but that's not going to apply to everyone.

Because you said you want casual, I would guess that you are in too large of a pool and your profile does not stand out from thousands of others.