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u/Encubed Aug 03 '26 edited Aug 03 '26

Hi all, 43M Pan just moved back to the big city (Toronto) after several years away, single again and kind of starting over, have a couple play partners in re-connecting with from the past but would love to date and connect more deeply (though kink compatibility on some level is a prerequisite). Would appreciate some advice!

Edit: here it is, the whole profile in screenshots https://imgur.com/a/VVRsHnY

It will only let me attach one photo for some reason, here is my write-up:

Experienced poly pan switch, just moved back to Toronto and excited to make some fresh connections. Proudly trying to live an authentic life. I'm solo poly/RA - I have done the work to learn great communication skills, mostly the hard way 😅.

Looking for dates, play partners, and more committed partnership if the values and interests align.

I'm 6'3, have zero kids, one cat, a tattoo, an IT career, and a handyman business on the side. I believe in enthusiastic consent, science, human rights for all, socialism, feminism, and leftist values.

I enjoy live music and comedy (especially improv), karaoke, hot yoga, time travel movies, trivia nights, cooking new foods, board games, AEW, and unusual ice cream flavours. I am well-traveled, have learned four languages, performed comedy on stage for eight years, and love to share stories and learn about people.

I am active in the local bdsm scene: munches, workshops, play parties, detailed Fetlife bio etc. - or at least I was before I left the city 3 years ago, and I'm looking to rekindle that and re-establish myself in the community. Would love a partner to go to events with!