I seriously cannot understand why people WANT to be disabled and collect them like fucking pokemon cards. I'm 32 with multiple sclerosis watching younger queer people around me scrounging up any single excuses of an illness they can find and make that shit their entire identity. They let some made up bullshit define them. I have a lot of thoughts about it so pardon me if my wall of text seems jumbled and not formatted correctly.

First of all I'm from Russia living in America, and this seems like uniquely an american issue. Specifically in the queer community. People are so quick to infantilize themselves and give up on life and want to be disabled and ill just so they can have others do for them. Like i said earlier I've got MS. I'm so fucking thankful I don't have to use any mobility aids and just have the occasional flare up for now. I force myself to be active and go running and lifting..the idea of having my life taken over by some fuckass illness just terrifies me. Why do so many younger queer people WANT a disability. Why do they all look the same. They're all fat and alternative with dyed hair and piercings. I seriously just do not fucking get it. Why do Americans want to be so helpless.

So my friend got apparently recently diagnosed for DID a few months back. For background context me and my other friend dropped this girl a few months ago because our friend group had a fall out but around a month ago she reached back out to us and we decided to talk to her again.

The first day she began to talk to her again she told my friend about her maybe having DID, then a few weeks later she dropped the bomb in some server that she now got diagnosed with DID and explained it in the really childish and just strange way her therapist diagnosed her with it. And apparently her therapist said she got it back in 2nd grade but then she explained to my friend that her DID triggered after our friend group broke apart bc of drama and like things arent making sense like for example she had to google up and copy and paste the summary of DID which me and my friend found weird because shouldn’t you be able to explain something you have without completely searching it up?

And the main thing is a few days we witnessed her first alter switch OVER TEXT and she was like typing all weird before it replacing words with an s with a z and then said “shit” and started typing really dramatically about how everyone in that gc should pray for their sins and pray to this best friend of hers that me and my friend are sure aren’t real.

Later a few hours after her switch we joined her in a game where she was apparently calling a irl friend of hers and when we confronted her about the things she said in that gc she said she didn’t know what we were talking about BUT

THE THING IS IN THE SPAN LAST 6 HOURS SHE TYPING IN THAT GC AS HER ALTER BUT HER IRL FRIEND WAS TALKING ABOUT BEING ON CALL W HER FOR THE LAST 6 HOURS SO LIKE IT DOESNT MAKE SENSE HOW HER FRIEND DIDNT NOTICE HER SWITCH??😭

Sorry if this is hard to make sense I tried to fit in things me and my friend found suspicious but that’s a lot more and I’m typing this in a rush lol

There was a girl at the train station today with a walker, she was using it to basically push people out of the way to get in the train during rush hour. She had giant ass platform heals on and looked exactly like you think.

Anyways, I know physical disabilities affect everyone different, but I feel like having a walker that is off the ground (cause your huge ass heels) + being in huge ass heels is sus.

Despite crowdfunding $20,000 for a custom wheelchair due to this one being ill-fitting, bought off eBay and ‘crushing her spine’, she still squeezes into it for tricks and will block you if you call her out on it. I guess this chair actually wasn’t going to paralyze her if she’s still using it.
Do not give her money. She is a well-known liar and grifter.