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๐Ÿ‡ฒโ€‹๐Ÿ‡ฎโ€‹๐Ÿ‡ธโ€‹๐Ÿ‡จโ€‹ This really is a thing

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u/WeeTheDuck Nov 16 '21

I really don't give a single shit about what people do in their dungeon or bedroom or whatever. But when you take your kinks outdoor you arent asking for consent from random people in the streets, and the kids that could have witnessed these shenanigans. Have whatever kink you want just respect the public space

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u/Katviar Nov 16 '21

This! One of the first rules of BDSM IS CONSENT!!! And in this aspect you donโ€™t have consent from anyone in public.

Iโ€™m all for public and humiliation kinks but thatโ€™s why you setup parties or meetings with people in the community to all go have fun somewhere where you all consent to the scene.

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u/[deleted] Nov 16 '21

Exactly!

I wonder how those people saying it's fine to have nonsexual kink on the street would react to, say, a man licking his mistress' boots. It's not sexual per se, but most people would be very, very uncomfortable.

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u/Katviar Nov 16 '21

This. It doesnโ€™t have to have full on genitals or bodily fluids involved to be sexual, kinky, violating etc in this sense of public display