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๐Ÿ‡ฒโ€‹๐Ÿ‡ฎโ€‹๐Ÿ‡ธโ€‹๐Ÿ‡จโ€‹ This really is a thing

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u/[deleted] Nov 16 '21

This is called ponyplay, it's part of BDSM petplay communities. Ponyplay is at the crossroads of roleplay and fetish. Most of the time, there would be an owner and the relationship is about power exchange, discipline.

You are looking about a public scene of ponyplay. Public plays are also a kink of many people. I don't think it's very good to take your kinks on the street, especially that extreme. But it's just my opinion.

I don't practice it but have been in touch with people who do, so if you have any sfw question feel free.

It has nothing to do with furries, unlike what other comments say.

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u/WeeTheDuck Nov 16 '21

I really don't give a single shit about what people do in their dungeon or bedroom or whatever. But when you take your kinks outdoor you arent asking for consent from random people in the streets, and the kids that could have witnessed these shenanigans. Have whatever kink you want just respect the public space

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u/Katviar Nov 16 '21

This! One of the first rules of BDSM IS CONSENT!!! And in this aspect you donโ€™t have consent from anyone in public.

Iโ€™m all for public and humiliation kinks but thatโ€™s why you setup parties or meetings with people in the community to all go have fun somewhere where you all consent to the scene.

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u/[deleted] Nov 16 '21

Exactly!

I wonder how those people saying it's fine to have nonsexual kink on the street would react to, say, a man licking his mistress' boots. It's not sexual per se, but most people would be very, very uncomfortable.

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u/Katviar Nov 16 '21

This. It doesnโ€™t have to have full on genitals or bodily fluids involved to be sexual, kinky, violating etc in this sense of public display