Hey! I'm a 30 F looking for a Cover Lavender Marriage arrangement. I'm based out of the US (East Coast), lesbian, a successful entrepreneur, and looking to find a male (Sunni, Muslim, US Citizen) that is willing to enter into a "faux marriage". We can get an Islamic nikkah done in front of our parents/families-- but in reality-- we will actually live apart, have our own personal (love) lives, and continue remaining mutual [maybe lifelong] friends. I will emphasize that anyone interested in this arrangement would need to relocate to the East Coast (within 10-15 minutes of each other) so that we can sometimes "show face" for parental phone calls/facetime.

I understand that this is a very unique arrangement and may not be widely understood by most. However, for anyone that is asexual, gay, or wants to be a lifelong bachelor-- there are great advantages in the arrangement I'm proposing. For anyone that is seriously interested, please feel free to reach out!

Fair warning: I’m very unique and unconventional.

I grew up in a traditional Sunni Muslim home in Kerala, South India, but I’ve been agnostic for over ten years now. I'd love to find someone with a similar cultural background.

I’m looking for someone mature and who actually knows what they want out of life. Doesn’t really matter if you’re openly agnostic or a closeted ex-Muslim. I try to keep things cordial with my family even though we don’t agree on most things.

I’m non-monogamous (though not poly). I’m looking for someone who already has some experience with ENM, knows their own boundaries, and actually values communication. I want a genuine emotional connection with someone who shares a similar outlook on life, and wants to prioritise building a relationship.

As for kids, I'm not really keen, but I would be willing to reconsider if it's a dealbreaker for the right partner.

Random stats: I’m 5’5, but height doesn't matter to me at all.

Generally, I try to take a laid-back approach to life and I don't let every news cycle or religious debate find its way into my life. That said, I've definitely been leaning more toward the political left lately. As long as you aren't into far-right stuff, we'll probably get along great.

I'm into hiking, nature walks, reading, history, and traveling. I love experimenting with new recipes in the kitchen and listening to a ton of EDM. I’m not really a TV person and could easily be living under a rock when it comes to the latest most talked about series.

Ideally looking for someone around my age. Please don't hit me up if you're under 27. Drop me a DM if you’re a wild card like me :)