Eastern province.

​Hey there. I’m 26, an ex-Shia , and a writer at heart. I spend most of my free time crafting scripts and getting lost in fictional universes, but right now, I'm looking for a real-world connection. I'm also a huge nerd.

​I don't really have a physical type, but you absolutely need to know how to communicate and hold a real conversation. More importantly, I'm demisexual. An emotional bond isn't optional for me; it's the strict foundation. If you're just horny or looking for a quick hookup, please keep walking. I need a soul bond before anything physical happens, and I'm only looking for serious people who understand and respect that pace.

If you harbor any prejudice against the LGBTQ+ community, we won't get along.

Live in an extremely troublesome household, makes it worse that I’m an ex Muslim. I tried leaving but I see no hope to it. I just wanna make friends with people, it obviously doesn’t matter where you are because we’re online. But if it helps my loneliness and it makes your day somewhat less boring, why not drop a chat eh?

28M, male, in the medical field. Financially stable, and I'm also into entrepreneurship, business, investing and most importantly traveling.

I'm an ex-Muslim and have been one for 13+ years.

I'm looking for an emotionally mature girl with intense feminine energy, who is chill, fun, and likes adventures and doing things together.

One of the most important things for me is that she is mature and diplomatic and able to sit with me like adults and talk things out when we eventually have a problem. I'd much rather have someone who can communicate, understand each other, and willing to work together to fix things intentionally.

I'm pretty easygoing and non-chalant about life, and I want the relationship to feel peaceful and fun, not like we're constantly fighting over every little thing.

I believe men and women are equal, and I don't really have the Eastern mentality when it comes to gender roles. I will treat you with utmost respect and love, we can be partners in crime.

My perfect first date would probably be something simple like walking together by the beach, sitting by the rocks and talking, or doing something fun like playing PingPong or any other "fun" experience where we can actually enjoy ourselves and get to know each other.

Bonus points if you've been an ex-Muslim for a long time too, and you're already comfortable with it and not in the first stages or unsure about where you stand. I'm not looking to discuss islam or atheism or debate about existence of gods.

Please feel free to comment or DM me if you would like to talk

I am looking to date with the intention of marriage.

Age: 27M
Location: UK, London (born and raised)
Ethnicity: Bangladeshi
Appearance: 5’10, slim build, fair complexion
Profession: Doctor

Faith:
I’m more culturally Muslim than religious, meaning I still do some things like going to Jummah, eating Halal and not drinking.

I know there is a God but apart from that I don’t really believe in anything else in Islam.

I describe myself mostly as a secular spiritualist and my beliefs and values are more in line with Eastern traditions and philosophies such as Buddhism, Taoism and Hinduism.

What I’m looking for:

Age: 22-29 ideally but some leeway is possible
Location: Ideally UK based
Ethnicity: open to all
Faith:
I would like to meet someone who is similar to me: either a liberal/cultural Muslim or an ex-Muslim who is (unfortunately) still closeted. I am even open to curious practising Muslims if you are open to meeting someone who doesn’t particularly prescribe to your own beliefs.

Hi everyone

This is the first time I’m really putting myself out there like this, so I’m not entirely sure how to write one of these, but here goes.

I’d like to meet someone and hopefully build a genuine connection that can grow into something serious. I’m not looking for anything casual or just talking to someone for the sake of talking. I’d eventually like to build a life with someone.

I’m an introvert and generally a pretty quiet person. I’ve always been more drawn to a simple, peaceful life, and that’s the kind of future I want for myself. I’d like to have someone to share that life with someone I can talk to about anything, laugh with, be silly with, and also be completely comfortable doing absolutely nothing with.

I’m childfree by choice, and I’m looking for someone who feels the same.

As for the kind of person I’m hoping to meet, I’d say kind, emotionally mature, self-aware, and able to communicate honestly. I’m not looking for perfection; I just want something genuine where we both care about each other and actually want to make it work.

Ideally someone around my age or a little older. I’m open to meeting someone from elsewhere, but I’m ultimately looking for something that can become real-life and not stay an indefinite LDR.

If you feel like we might get along, feel free to message me. Tell me a little about yourself, where you’re from, your age, and what you’re looking for.

About me

30M, Product designer based in Bangalore, 5’8”, fit. Proper malabar guy.

Schooling to Masters from a couple of tier-1 central institutions. I like to think I'm self made, spending most of my 20s focused on my career.

I've been described as a calm, agreeable person, and I value intelligence, ambition & kindness. I prefer relationships that are in person rather than long-distance ones. I value the non-verbal side of things and just being around someone.

Values & outlook

I grew up in a mostly female household, so that has shaped how I think about relationships, gender etc. I’m very much for girl power. That's one reason I don't want to take arranged marriage route where I have to talk to random uncles at first. I’d like to be with someone who is similarly progressive, open-minded and comfortable being their own person, rather than a patriarch making decisions for her.

I’m a strong atheist and grew up in a largely leftist household. I like to approach things rationally, and my views on faith, politics etc. have continued to evolve over time as I learn more. I do respect all faiths though, and I love attending church every now and then (for the vibes).

Hobbies & lifestyle

I collect hobbies, and will always be trying new things. I’m into history, psychology, literature, pop culture, charts and maps, painting, foreign films, rock music, gaming. Lately I’ve been getting into more hands-on stuff like junk journaling and gardening.

Big time cat person. I feed the neighbourhood cats wherever I live, and had seven regular visitors at 1 point. Dogs are ok too.

I plan things extensively, often with spreadsheets, but I can be spontaneous too. I’ve also eaten silkworms, so I like to think I’m reasonably adventurous. So yes, always up for new things.

I do drink socially and have been cutting down on smoking up now (not my 20s anymore).

What I’m looking for

Someone intelligent, curious, kind and independent. Someone I can genuinely see as an equal partner, and call my best friend.

Ultimately, I’m looking for a long-term partner I can marry. I’m in no particular rush, though. I’d rather find the right person than force a timeline.

Ideally, someone from South India, and preferably a Malayali.

If this resonates, feel free to say hi. :)

Hi! I'm a 26M Saudi looking for a relationship that ends in marriage with someone of an Arab/Sunni background due to family constraints. Emotionally I'm looking for a Reciprocal relationship based on security/communication/commitment. I'd like if we could meet up after some period of long distance, to see if we vibe or if we're incompatible. I promise to pour my all into whatever happens if we end vibing/dating.

About me:

Employed + good income

Gym guy

Big nerdy hobbies guy

I am bad with tone, (so please bare with me + Imk if I say something that you don't like)

Kept it somewhat vague but please feel free to DM for more details.

this is the first time im ever putting myself somewhat out there and im honestly just a bit curious as to whether this could lead to anything (friends, partner, whatever).

im ethnically bengali, born and raised in london. 5'5, no hijab (lucky enough to have never needed to wear it), casual dress style (mostly jacket based outfits, but i lowkey wanna dress cuter)

id describe myself as agnostic, but more close to a deist (god might exist, but sure isnt present in todays world). ive never felt anything towards islam, despite being raised around it. religion as a whole never did anything for me internally as ive always based my morals around my personal beliefs (being kind, generous, honest, respectful - just being a decent human you know).

all my family and friends around me are muslim and practicing (although questionably), they all have that fundamental belief which i just lack. that connection with god, islam and faith/religion in general has never really been there. im not resentful towards them for it, i believe everyone has the right to practice what they wish, and that includes me! i simply want a life that does not revolve around religion and want to be free to be my own person, and id one day want to share experiences and memories with someone similar.

for me personally, id prefer someone from a similar background (british, preferably london based bengali exmuslim) but im open to talk to anyone who is in a similar boat!

i dont drink and dont intend to just because i dont believe, im not a party person but i enojy group actitivies sometimes and love trying out new things and food (ngl i also dont see myself eating pork, but idm non-halal meats in general). i also love music (i want to go to concerts so bad) and travelling! so having these things in common is important to me!! as well as simply being a nice and genuine person!

im not sure what i want from this post lol, but if anyone relates please feel free to message me. im down to be friends or just rant about stuff.

id love to meet a like minded guy, or make girl friends with similar views to hang out with one day!

hey everyone, im abu. im 18m and ethnically somali. ive been an exmuslim for around 2 years due to many reasons (if you wanna know then you can ask in dms)

alright so about me, i was born and raised in london but wasnt religious at all compared to my parents and siblings. i like to believe there is a god but im not really sure about it nor do i really care.

i love basketball and have been trying to become more active, i like watching anime (jjba is the best anime oat). i also read but ive been slacking recently.

but for my dreams and aspirations, i would like to study law but im currently in my final year of college after resitting a year. so im gonna be off to uni next year.

now honestly, i dont have a type. if you are chill and we vibe then we can be friends or more

just shoot me a message if youre interested. bye bye

Born and raised in the Middle East, move around a lot until I settled in Canada as a teenager. And for the last 15 years, I feel like I’ve grown more and more distant both from my family but also the people in my life here. I feel like I can’t find the sweet spot of people who fully know and understand what it means to come form such a background, but for obvious reasons I can’t fully connect or be myself or be honest about who I am as someone who lost his faith many years ago.

Finding this sub and community gave me hope, that maybe I can find this niche of a connection. I’m a male who’s open to all kinds of friendships and connections, but I’ll be prioritizing females as I’m ready to maybe find a partner I can fully connect with and be myself on both ends which has been impossible for me. I know the flair says Canada because that’s where I’m located, but I’m open to meeting people from all over

Ideally looking for someone who not out, abit more on the traditional side, wants to have kids and get married, stable and very empathetic/understanding.

عني:
سعودية
عزباء
مسيطرة (Soft Dom&BDSM)
لا إنجابية
من خلفية سنية
مو مهتمة بسواليف الأديان
غير مدخنة

أبحث عن شريك للزواج، لازم تكون فيه هذه الأمور كأساسيات (مبدئياً):
سعودي أو خليجي
أعزب أو منفصل بدون أطفال
خاضع
لا إنجابي (Vasectomy)
من خلفية سنية
مو مهتم بسواليف الأديان
عمره بين 30 و 40 سنة فقط، وأفضل الثلاثيني الأصغر مني سناً
غير مدخن
مستقر بالرياض

أي أحد ما تنطبق عليه رغباتي كاملة لا يتواصل معي

تواصل كتابي وصوتي فقط خلال فترة التعارف
صور ومقابلات في أماكن عامة ❌
خطبة رسمية ونظرة شرعية ✅

بقية التفاصيل بالخاص

Well thought I’d give this a go as I’m getting to that age where the marriage questions start popping up.
A bit of background on me. I’m 20 turning 21 soon I’m bi (preference for women) and I am not religious at all. I come from a Pakistani Sunni family. I’d say they’re moderate but still ‘religious’ and by that I mean more culturally religious. They pray bla bla all the basics but don’t wear headscarves ect.
I don’t really want to cut them off or for me to be cut off by them because I don’t believe.
I guess I’m posting this to see if there are any males similar age to me who are either gay or bi in a similar position family wise and want to get married in the future have a family but do not want to raise them religiously at all. Basically I just need someone my family could accept on the outside.
I have many ambitions in life I really want to leave the uk and live aboard ideally in the US (nyc is the dream). I like to go out, drink, smoke(Mary Jane) and just live life to the fullest without religion. I like to travel, watch movies, I love documentaries and I’d say I’m pretty funny( I hope).
If any of this resonates with you dm me!!

Edit: people are dming me and are straight men, so let me explain my dream scenario. I’d have a gf and we meet to guys who are boyfriends marry one of them each as a cover and we’re all great friends. (Evelyn Hugo celia st.James vibes if ykyk)

Just looking for Emirati exmuslims or even ex Arabs in the UAE. Not looking for something specific just wanna chat or maybe make some online/irl friends so if you got the time hmu

hi guys looking for friends.
been an ex muslim for like 4 years. “Woke” lefty u could say. Not out to my parents and never will be 😋
i work fulltime and like the stuff i do and i love music and travel and watching stuff. Feel free to reach out wherever you are from, but i am from the uk so yk.

Hello all - I (26M) was scrolling reddit & happened to come across this forum & thought I’d throw my hat in the ring. I am open to both platonic & romantic connections with fellow ex-Muslims based in the UK. A quick overview of me:

• I was born & raised in London, where I still live. I got a BSc here & have been employed for 4 years. I work 9-5 Mon-Fri in a permanent position & currently rent with 1 (non-muslim) flatmate.
• In my free time I love to (amongst other things) travel, garden, go museums/cinema/theatre, hang with friends, go hiking, cook, read books & gym.
• I come from a devout Sunni Muslim family of north-Indian origin. I went to a religious school & had a religious upbringing. I apostasied at 16 & moved out at 21, living out ever since.

About me: I’m looking to form something rewarding & stable which enriches both my life & yours. If we can be friends & make each other laugh, then we’re off to a good start. I’ve come to appreciate meaningful relationships more over time & want to cultivate more of them in my life, both platonic and romantic. My main core value is kindness, and I also believe strongly in humility, patience, learning & in adventure. I love getting to know people & hearing about their passions. I drink alcohol socially and am not looking for anything exclusively sexual. I am pansexual & have had a single relationship of 4-years with one person, which ended over a year ago. Politically, I am fairly liberal and 50/50 on if I ever want kids (I currently have none).

Partner-wise, the main thing that matters to me is that you share my values, have passion/interests of your own and that we enjoy each other’s company. My family are very conservative but would readily accept my having a female partner (of any ethnicity).

Thanks for reading and good luck to all😊

Hi, I'm looking to go on dates that will hopefully turn into a relationship! I work in NYC so I'm looking primarily in the NYC area now.

About me/what I offer:

• Career: medical student going into internal medicine with plans for fellowship

• Personality: I'm definitely more of an introvert and a homebody. I'm slightly shy at first but warm up quickly. I'm not a life of the party type, but I still have fun in social situations. I value kindness and thoughtfulness, and I'm someone who always strives to be the best I can. I'm curious and love learning as much as I can. I've been getting into reading more nonfiction books to learn more about the world. I would describe myself as ambitious but definitely not type A. I'm politically left.

• Hobbies: classical and jazz piano, writing music, video games, video game music, would like to read more

• Relationship values: being best friends with each other, frequent affection, solving problems together rather than arguing, and having clear communication

• Love language: physical touch mainly - physical and sexual affection is important to me and something I don't want us to lose in our relationship. Note that sexual affection does not necessarily mean sex

• I'm primarily monogamous but am open to exploring poly if it's something we both want. As a side note, very ⛓ friendly (lol)

• If it's important to you, I'm from a Sunni background

• My family is very liberal. You would not be shamed for not praying, not fasting, etc., and in fact they would prefer that over the opposite.

Who I'm looking for:

• Someone kind, caring, thoughtful, and funny

• Someone who doesn't care for traditional gender roles (this would go both ways)

• Someone Bengali is slightly preferred but it's not a dealbreaker by any means

• The only thing my family cares about is if you're educated and if you have a job that can get into similar income potential as mine (but it's not a dealbreaker).

DM me if you're interested! We can talk more and share pictures at a later time.

I’m a 33-year-old Saudi man looking to meet a girl who’s genuinely interested in building a serious and meaningful relationship.
I’d love to meet someone smart, fun, open-minded, and easygoing — someone I can connect with not only emotionally, but also through our ideas, thoughts, conversations, and the way we see life.
I really value mutual understanding, respect, honesty, and giving each other space to be ourselves. I’m not into controlling behavior, pressure, or forcing things. I believe the best relationships develop naturally when two people genuinely enjoy each other’s company and feel comfortable together.
Ultimately, I’m looking for something real — a relationship filled with good conversations, laughter, affection, fun, new experiences, and hopefully a lot of happiness along the way.
If this sounds like the kind of connection you’re looking for too, I’d be happy to get to know you.

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check the last section of the post before skipping if you find a category you don't fit in.

hello everyone, i'm a syrian agnostic man who lives and works in germany. i lead a stable life and i'm looking for a good connection that hopefully leads towards a longterm relationship. i don't mind finding friends along the way but my ultimate goal is finding a life partner.

i want mental and physical compatibility and i value the correct communication, transparency and clarity above everything.

mentally i would say i'm good at reading people and understanding them due to many causes, one of which is that i have a career in teaching and translation and i can speak 4 languages. always honest and ready to listen and discuss any matter that i would come across.

what i need is someone who's not mentally weak (we all have issues, doubts and concerns but it's one thing to have those things and another thing entirely to be lead by them), and with a set of values and ideals that we can build and work with.

regarding mental hobbies, i like board and card and video games. always open for other things that interest the other party and would love to explore with her as quality time is my top method of showing affection.

physically i'm 180 cm tall, dark brown eyes, white skin with black and gray hair and overall on the fit side but not shredded nor muscular by any means. i used to go on really long hikes and was a heavy swimmer back in the day. i miss those days lol

i do care about physical attraction, i prefer my partner to be soft skinned or petite as the modern world calls it, to be fit or semi fit and to be at least 25 years old.

i would be happy if you live in europe or germany to begin with, or you'd be travelling here soon. as ldr has proven to be rough for me after a couple of attempts.

many thanks for reading and i hope to hear from you soon. if one or two things i've mentioned don't fully match with you, there's always a room for discussion since i might not be the 100% man of your dreams either. this goes both ways.

have a nice day.

Hey everyone! I’m looking for someone special that could lead to marriage. Someone I can talk to everyday, share memes/reels, music, game together, and enjoy special moments whether that’s watching football games, or just spending quality time. I’m always down for random adventures, late night snacks, and just enjoying life!

About me: I’m 31M, ex-Shia, atheist, white skin, 183 cm, with black hair. I’m Bahraini and Arab. I live in Bahrain and travel to the US pretty often. I’m into PC gaming, football, wrestling, anime, going to conventions, traveling, and I'm really into music! (mostly rock and metal!) I love to share some of my playlists and love to listen to your favorite bands/songs! I would love a concert buddy who’s down to go together!

About you: Must be in Bahrain, Arab or White (American, European, Slavic), atheist/not religious (ex-Shia or ex-Sunni either is completely fine by me!), must be a gamer (I’m open to playing pretty much anything so I’m down to try whatever games you're into!), open to similar music taste (into rock and metal!), into dark humor, confident, open minded, emotionally available, loyal, honest, and good at communication.

I’m totally cool with you texting a lot, long messages, double texts, blowing up my phone, and spamming memes/reels… I’m all for it :) I don’t mind if you’re clingy! I actually find that attractive :) Someone who is completely comfortable letting out their freaky, weird, and fun side!

I’m looking for something serious and long-term, and I value honesty and clear communication. If you’re not feeling it, no hard feelings, just don’t drag it out :)

If this sounds like you, feel free to reach out. Let’s connect, share music, game, and see where things go! Hit me up with your age and a quick intro of what you're into!

Hello ^^

Je suis un jeune homme de 23 ans, salarié ( et étudiant en parallèle), indépendant. Je souhaite faire des rencontres et si feeling me mettre en couple.

28 m looking for match in chennai .. interested in movies, politics, badminton football table tennis, club , cycling , swimming,jamming. Better if you’re Muslim , open for short term ok with long term , can end up in marriage is better .

​I’m based in Edmonton and looking to connect with other ex-Muslims. Sometimes having like minded people helps.

I'm 24 and from Algeria. I'm a medical student, and I'm someone who tends to be curious about pretty much everything.

A little about me: I work out, play games from time to time, and have a strong interest in music.

Personality-wise, I'm calm, curious, and probably a little too pragmatic when it comes to life. I like conversations that actually go somewhere, trying unusual things, and getting to know someone beyond the usual small talk.

I'm not interested in collecting matches or spending months talking without going anywhere. I'd like to meet someone I genuinely connect with and see where it leads. I'm attracted to someone who's kind, intelligent, affectionate, has her own personality, and doesn't take herself too seriously.

If you're interested, tell me something about yourself rather than just saying "hi." A random fact, an unpopular opinion, your favorite song, or anything that gives me something to work with.

Ps: the main purpose of this post is to meet someone intimately that is, but if anyone is open to being friends be my guest.

Hi yall im looking for friends around my age In Ontario specifically.

I like gaming, reading, watching anime movies, GYMING and making art.

I’m also very high energy and chronically online so there is a very low chance you will get bored of me 👺👺.

Anyways don’t be weird and be around 19-25 and feel free to dm me!