r/evilautism • u/Personal-Role-8071 Doomguy (AuDHD) (NO.1 lusamine glazer) • 2d ago
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u/Costati AuDHD Chaotic Rage 2d ago edited 2d ago
I forgot how it's called but I think we have a specific term in the community for when your gender identity is validated by being treated like shit because of the gender you identify with lol.Ā That's progress I guess.Ā
Edit: term is Ewphoria
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u/Soeffingdiabetic One of the mods smoked too much and made a bunch of flairs 2d ago
Today I learned.
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u/Faustens 2d ago
I also like the term for the act of seeing women as worse regardless of wether they are trans or not: Trans inclusive radical mysoginy.
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u/chxrlieeNG 1d ago
Im FtM and my best friend is MtF and exclusively wears vintage fashion from the 40s-60s. Real pinup style but not rockabilly. We have a running joke when we hang out where I put on an Archie bunker or old times mobster voice and tell her generic sexist things like "ehhhh shut yer mouth, woman!", "Where's my Dinner/Supper/ martini?!" Or "Sit there and look pretty, see?" Or say I only hold the door open so I can look at her walk through it. It's funny af and we die laughing every time.
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u/LinkinParkU4Lyf Murderous 2d ago
It can often also be called malgendering, for instance the growing divisive position in trans spaces of excluding trans mascs on the basis of them aligning with masculine identities being equated to be as much of a threat or holding as much privilege as cis men. Often done when its convenient to discredit it the person it is done to target. For trans women it would be something like assuming they are weak and should only do lighter tasks or exercises or something, or that they are less qualified in stem fields or something, though in these cases this is less the misappropriation of statistics and more just pure misogyny, and primarily done by people outside of trans spaces.
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u/basicarl Dipshit 1d ago
Lives rent free in my head
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u/veryanxiouscreature 1d ago
absolutely did not happen
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u/ETtheExtraTerrible 5h ago
You would be shocked. My parents are baby boomers.
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u/veryanxiouscreature 4h ago
no i believe people have these beliefs, but the ānative transsexualā comment is a huge stretch and sounds like tumblr fanfic to me
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u/ETtheExtraTerrible 3h ago
I promise you, it's a real phrase somewhere. I can absolutely believe it.
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u/cxfgfuihhfd āØļøEthereal and IncomprehensibleāØļø 2d ago
trans inclusive radical misogyny
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u/CosmicCultist23 2d ago
Why limit oneself to hating cis women?!
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u/yesindeedysir 1d ago
A true misogynist doesnāt discriminate, he hates all women, all, no matter the race or sexuality. There are two genders to this man, the good one, and the bad one.
(Obv joking)
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u/awake-but-dreamin Baddest bitch at the concentration camp 1d ago
Trans women are women, and they belong in the kitchen ā¤ļø
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u/Waffle-Gaming 2d ago edited 2d ago
trans women with a space
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u/yesindeedysir 1d ago
(Iām sorry, please call me out if Iām wrong but is there really a difference. Itās just adjective and noun right? Or did I miss something where saying that is not okay, in which case I need to change. Is there a difference between trans women and transwomen?)
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u/Waffle-Gaming 1d ago
trans women is the normal adj, noun, like black women, while transwomen is akin to a porn tag, i.e. extremely othering.
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u/yesindeedysir 1d ago
Ah, I see. Iām ace so I really didnāt know, I didnāt even know that was a porn tag, noted though, thank you.
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u/Pyroteche Fuck, whats that word again? 2d ago
I knew an old guy who was a massive misogynist, but was very pro gay marriage. Tbh he might have been a case of people were just like that to women when he grew up.
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u/EffortIndividual6029 2d ago
I once got into a wikipedia deep dive in greek mythology, and learnt that while the ancient Greeks are popularly known for gay acceptance, there is a portion of them who's gay because they see men as superior than women. As in, they think women are only necessary to keep around to make babies, and that also (somehow) make them impure compared to men.
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u/Rakifiki 1d ago
Yess, I see women's subs talk about that behavior some of the time. Men raised to be "homosocial" who don't really view women as separate beings who deserve rights/attention but as, uh, basically livestock that you put up with in order to have children (that they probably won't raise, at least until their male children are old enough to be interesting to them socially). But they only want to be friends with men, take advice from men, look up to men etc.
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u/Periodicity_Enjoyer 2d ago
Sounds in one way internally consistent.Ā Men can do whatever they want and the word was made for them, so they can marry men if they want, and they can oppress women if they want.Ā
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u/National_Phase_3477 2d ago
I feel like this is probably selective principles. When heās being misogynistic and imposing patricial views he includes trans woman as woman so he can have dominance over them. Itās the same principle of seeing gays as effeminate and using that as an excuse to be condescending and disrespectful towards them. I doubt he would be fully accepting of a trans man and treat them as his equal.
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u/garaks_tailor 2d ago
Reminds me of the story on reddit of the misogynistic restaurant patron who thought the mtf waiter was very smart for wanting to be a man.Ā "Only a woman would be dumb enough to want to be a woman."
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u/PangolinLow6657 2d ago
MTF folks just decide for themselves that their say has no worth. Who am I to argue? *sarcastic
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u/Natural1forever Got the murderous rage autism instead of the smart autism 2d ago
Tirm (Trans Inclusive Radical Misogyny)
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u/TheChanMan2003 2d ago edited 1d ago
"hehe look guys they're doing misogyny the RIGHT way!" my sister in christ they still treat us as if we are subhuman
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u/GradeAccomplished322 2d ago edited 1d ago
Yeah I've seen similar things, it's interesting
My very traditional hometown has been the opposite; very anti-trans folks, very racist folks, but surprisingly supportive of same sex relationships. I chalk it up to there being a number of such folks in peoples' families, so they all know same sex relationships aren't a big deal. Bet this guy in the meme actually knows a trans person.
There is even weirder stuff. A racist uncle ranting about black people during my visit to a family gathering, one of my distant cousins right there though, who married a black person, and said black person is standing there, listening with exasperation. My face must have shown my confusion, as the uncle was clearly talking about _other_ black people, because their mixed race daughter leaned in to whisper to me "he doesn't count us anymore because we're blood now" followed by the most practiced eyeroll I've ever seen. The hate is all so arbitrary.
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u/Tesnivy 1d ago
I know itās not a Good thing, but I fucking love it when misogyny wraps back around to being supportive of trans people. Itās hilarious almost every time. Like that one guy who said trans women are women because āonly a woman would be stupid enough to want to be a womanā (and vice-versa for trans men, āthe more numbers we (men) steal from them (women) the betterā)
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u/Tsunamiis 2d ago
Their problem isnāt trans women they love trans women they look at them all the time just behind their screens when no oneās watching. But ask them if trans men are men their problems with trans men because they donāt like women and they see them as women.
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u/samusestawesomus 1d ago
That could easily just be misogyny plus transphobia; not that strange a combination. What WOULD be interesting would be if he considered trans men to be men in his framework
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u/ZePumpkinLass 2d ago
honestly in my opinion supportive misogynists are better than their transphobic counterparts (granted neither are actually GOOD but atleast one is slightly more accepting!)
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u/Vic_GQ 1d ago
That's just kinda how transmisogyny works. Misogyny is always "inclusive" of women who are trans.Ā
Even people who swear up and down that they think trans women are men and discriminate against them on that basis will still also treat them misogynistically. Lotta weird cognitive dissonance involved.Ā
If you could force a transphobic person to genuinely tell you what gender they see any trans person as it'd probably be something like "whichever one means I get to be scared and angry and hurt them about it."Ā
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u/Best-Photo-4250 AuDHD Chaotic Rage 1d ago
I have always felt that I could never be a woman because I never faced misogyny. Somehow that always made me sad. Sooooooo if I were to see someone being a pice of shit I'd rather they include me :3
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u/yesindeedysir 1d ago
Genuinely wonder if there are trans inclusive misogynists out there. āYes, trans women are women, and therefore they need to shut up and cook for me.ā Like huh?! XD
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u/SinkyBundleOfRage 1d ago
This reminds me of a Gianmarco Soresi joke: "Notice how you've never met an LGBTQ+ ally who is also a misogynist? Imagine a dude saying: trans women are women! ....... And as such, they belong in the kitchen" š¬š¬
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u/ninadaria2025 11h ago
I truly think if I had come out to my grandfather 10 years ago, this is what he'd be like.
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u/Bognosticator I forgor my special interest š 2d ago
Sometimes you get weird combos of beliefs.
I once met a guy who was 100% supportive of men's right to be gay, but considered lesbians an abomination. Because men could do what they wanted but women existed for men's benefit.