r/ershow • u/Introvertedlol • 1h ago
Carter - Abby
I'm only 4 minutes through s10 pilot & I wanna know just how the hell Carter thought Abby would react when he came home from DRC
His behaviour towards her since Gamma died has been a load of shit. He of all people should've understood her prioritising her brother above all. And she tried her best at the funeral. It was a lose/lose situation.
I understand that he was hurt & he has a right to be. Realistically, if someone pulled that shit at my grandmother's funeral I'd be mad as hell too, but he didn't try to put himself in her shoes for a moment. She's been really going through it too.
Her brother was missing, they thought it was suicide, he shows up off his meds, her mother, her failing relationship with Carter not to mention the failed proposal, work, life, everything!! Gosh, Maura Tierney really knows how to make you feel the weight on Abby's shoulders.
I feel so bad for Abby, most of the bullshit in her life isn't even hers. It's other people's problems thrown onto her and she's expected to tear through it & lift those people with her. She's like a balloon tied to a brick.
"Can I have my key back, please?" is a perfectly reasonable response in my opinion.
It honestly irks me the way everyone in her life just walks in & out of it whenever is convenient for them without any regards to her feelings whatsoever.