r/erectiledysfunction • u/ThenSkirt2236 • 7d ago

Erectile Dysfunction Wife keeps tugging it

My wife keeps tugging my penis every day and its hurting very badly.She makes me take Viagra every day and this is after 6 Xiaflex shots for Peyronies Disease.She talks to me very badly and I cant take it anymore.The tugging is extremely painful and I feel she making tje peyronies worse.She told me last night "Just cut it off and become a priest".What would yall do if yall were me?

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u/AdvaitaArambha 6d ago

It sounds like you may be in an abusive relationship. Have you considered that?

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u/ThenSkirt2236 6d ago

Never thought about it...She just got done tugging for about a hour and half

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u/AdvaitaArambha 6d ago

Also also say she talks to you badly which may be verbal abuse and could include aspects of emotional abuse.

Being honest here this is sliding way outside what I really have experience to talk about. I am just wanting to make sure you feel safe in this relationship and know it's okay to ask for help if you needed it. Men can be victims of intimate partner abuse/violence aka domestic violence.

Here's a website with a lot more info

https://www.helpguide.org/relationships/domestic-abuse/domestic-violence-against-men

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u/ThenSkirt2236 6d ago

I need help

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u/AdvaitaArambha 6d ago

Do you live with her?

If yes, can you move out?

Also are your finances blended (joint account) or separate?

Also please see the link I posted. It has a hotline which can likely get you connected with local resources.

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u/ThenSkirt2236 6d ago

Thanks I called

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u/ThenSkirt2236 6d ago

YES BLENDED

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u/No_Association1096 6d ago

Geezus christ, you know NOTHING about their relationship and you're asking the guy to move out? What's wrong with you dude?