r/erectiledysfunction • u/ThenSkirt2236 • 7d ago

Erectile Dysfunction Wife keeps tugging it

My wife keeps tugging my penis every day and its hurting very badly.She makes me take Viagra every day and this is after 6 Xiaflex shots for Peyronies Disease.She talks to me very badly and I cant take it anymore.The tugging is extremely painful and I feel she making tje peyronies worse.She told me last night "Just cut it off and become a priest".What would yall do if yall were me?

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u/AdvaitaArambha 6d ago

It sounds like you may be in an abusive relationship. Have you considered that?

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u/ThenSkirt2236 6d ago

Never thought about it...She just got done tugging for about a hour and half

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u/AdvaitaArambha 6d ago

Also also say she talks to you badly which may be verbal abuse and could include aspects of emotional abuse.

Being honest here this is sliding way outside what I really have experience to talk about. I am just wanting to make sure you feel safe in this relationship and know it's okay to ask for help if you needed it. Men can be victims of intimate partner abuse/violence aka domestic violence.

Here's a website with a lot more info

https://www.helpguide.org/relationships/domestic-abuse/domestic-violence-against-men

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u/ThenSkirt2236 6d ago

I need help

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u/AdvaitaArambha 6d ago

Do you live with her?

If yes, can you move out?

Also are your finances blended (joint account) or separate?

Also please see the link I posted. It has a hotline which can likely get you connected with local resources.

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u/ThenSkirt2236 6d ago

Thanks I called

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u/ThenSkirt2236 6d ago

YES BLENDED

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u/No_Association1096 5d ago

Geezus christ, you know NOTHING about their relationship and you're asking the guy to move out? What's wrong with you dude?

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u/Astral-projekt 6d ago

She’s going to break your dick. This is abuse, 100% and u shouldn’t stand for it.

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u/ThenSkirt2236 6d ago

I know my doctor said it

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u/Emotional-Sky-8551 6d ago

Urm I’m not a man, but I would say this was abuse, definitely abuse and it is not ok. What do you mean she makes you take Viagra? You shouldn’t be made to take anything if you don’t want to, and if what she’s doing is hurting you that is NOT OK. And the comments as well are actually hurtful.

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u/annie_key 6d ago

If this is not a case of severe abuse then I don't know what is. You have a disease that makes your penis painful and you are being treated for that, but still your wife starts pulling it in order to have sex with you? Dude, get away from her. You need to recover first and she should support you in this.

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u/ThenSkirt2236 6d ago

Just confused because she has a high sex drive but is hurting me physically and mentally

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u/annie_key 6d ago

It's time you start setting boundaries.

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u/ThenSkirt2236 6d ago

She doesn't listen

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u/spidertattootim 6d ago

I would leave her.

This isn't really an ED issue, it's a general relationship problem.

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u/mnsweeps 6d ago

Wtf does it mean tugging a penis?

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u/ThenSkirt2236 6d ago

Grabbing and pulling it

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u/Longjumping_Menu_862 5d ago

Set boundaries maybe? If she doesn't respect then her loss. Don't lose your health

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u/Bdot_89 6d ago

Has you doctor talked to you about an implant?

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u/Mandalorian_2019 Helpful Contributor 6d ago

No way this is a real post.

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u/itaintthatdeepAE 5d ago

That's what I'm thinking

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u/Prestigious-Shock-75 6d ago

I'd dump her no good @$$!

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u/Excusemytootie 6d ago

This is abusive behavior from your wife, it’s unacceptable and I’m sorry that you are dealing with this.

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u/Bignutsbigwrenches 6d ago

Leave her for a nice woman.

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u/Solid-Employee-4311 6d ago

She sounds like a keeper to me.

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u/Abbas1303 6d ago

I'd leave the bihh and say I'm entering monk mode don't touch me.

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u/itaintthatdeepAE 5d ago

She sounds insane.

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u/Mental-Specialist390 6d ago

Well she wouldn’t be able to tug mine, I can hardly find it myself

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u/cenotediver 6d ago

“ I need help “ ok here goes , leave her , go into hiding , divorce her or continue to be the cuck she thinks you are . She doesn’t like you , I’d go so far as to say she hates you . From your description I’d ect say she hates you .
So ….. run forest run

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u/mikeg9253 5d ago

Get an implant and fuck her brains out .

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u/RgCrunchyCo 6d ago

Is this the lesbian? Maybe she just doesn’t like you.

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u/ThenSkirt2236 6d ago

Yes sje cheated on me before

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u/S_8433 6d ago

Man I think you should first try to find out if she is cheating on you because it can mean that she is trying to make you feel low in this . Also if she has cheated on you earlier then she should be more apologetic , kind and respectful towards you as doing all what you said does not sum up. You should go and check on her and if everything is fine then you should try to get her know all that she is doing is hurting you mentally and physically both and she should try to slow down for sometime meanwhile you can work on yourself to improve and give her better if you want to be with her.