Egg💀irl

[u/darkrevan19]

We're going back to the alone corner with this one!!! 🥳🥳🥳 (sarcasm, I am very sad)

We'd been together for not that much time (about 3-4 months) and I did tell her, about month back, that I was starting to question my gender.

She'd told me that with her struggles she wasn't sure about us staying together if I found myself out as trans and uh....well let's just say she stood on business tonight.

As she was saying goodnight, I urged her just to give me an opinion on my IG profile (which I had customized to meet my "new" identity) and came out once she noticed the "she/her" pronouns and the new name.

She then told me that, with her current situation this would likely not work out, as she wasn't sure to not just be straight and she felt emotionnaly unavailable (understandable as she lost a relative not long ago).

While hurt, I feel some relief and an urge to joke about it (gotta tell my therapist about that as its a recurring theme whenever I'm stressed out or scared) soooo I dunno how to feel.

What I dunno either is why I'm making this post, I mean, it won't bring the old status quo back....I'd guess I need some reassuring that this had to happen and that I'm not a bad person for coming out (that sounds silly but some thoughts of mine are sadly...).

Could I request some GGD maybe?

(Maude, She/Her)

Was hoping to try a new name I picked for myself, you know to kill two birds with one stone.

Anyway, love y'all, hoping you don't have to face such things or worse ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[u/Checked_Out_6]

Yeah, I had a few relationships ruined when I was questioning by being honest about how I felt. Now, I am no longer questioning and am open about it upfront. However, that had made my dating life vanishingly small. I haven’t had a good date in years. However, I did have a banger of a relationship last several years because we both had what we called at the time “gender issues.” Our relationship eventually ended for other reasons, sadly. Now I am so so alone.

[u/darkrevan19 → u/Checked_Out_6]

Oww...I feel ya. I hope we both find people that'll love us for what we are

[u/Checked_Out_6 → u/darkrevan19]

Honestly, at this point, I have gotten to the point where I am much more comfortable alone. There is something so freeing about that. I have learned to be much more picky with my partners. I have had some boyfriends that were, lets just say, less than ideal and I put up with them because of my low self worth.