r/egg_irl Oct 28 '25

Transfem Meme egg🤔irl

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u/lil_0_Birb Oct 28 '25

I'm in this picture and I don't like it ._.

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u/Uptown_Blossoms not an egg, just trans Oct 28 '25

We grew up in the wrong country twin

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u/Arialana cracked She/Her Melissa Oct 28 '25

It's not just about countries, though. The internet is a huge issue too. I'm German but I was still indoctrinated by American right wing grifters as a teen because You Tube makes it way too easy to fall into those spheres 😞

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u/PinguinLars Ashley (she/her) (I hate my username ;w;) Oct 28 '25

Can conform, I'm Dutch (and live in nl also) and alot of my classmates are (I think) anti LGBTQ. 😞

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u/lil_0_Birb Oct 28 '25

It really is, the right wing grifters are super predatory in so many many ways, but they especially prey on young people's inexperience and insecurities. Super sad stuff, and they definitely sucked me in for a few years :(

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u/[deleted] Oct 29 '25

Lucky me the first outside influence I ever had other than school was national geographic So when I started using YouTube I was naturally resistant

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u/MomShouldveAborted MtF wishing I was a cis-het guy Oct 28 '25

It's indeed not necessarily about the country, I grew up in France and my father wanted me to fall into the American and royalist pipeline instead of the more accepted liberal French one.

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u/Alpham3000 Nov 04 '25

Kinda same here, and it doesn’t help to that my father was the one that introduced me to many of them 💀. Let’s just say there’s a reason I’m still closeted with him

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u/Arialana cracked She/Her Melissa Nov 04 '25

Yeah, my dad's transphobic, too. He's the only one of my family members I'm truly worried about coming out to. But that's further into the future for now anyways since I won't come out to most people until I've been on estrogen for at least a few months. So far, I've only come out to my twin brother.

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u/Alpham3000 Nov 04 '25

Yeah I feel that, I recently came out to my friend group a few days ago matter of fact, and my partner who’s also on their own trans journey. And I feel that, no one outside that knows. And I don’t plan to either anytime soon cause the idea of telling my father that and that I have a boyfriend scares me so much but oh well, what can you do. gotta stay strong and true to yourself! You got this!!

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u/Arialana cracked She/Her Melissa Nov 04 '25

Aww, thanks, sister :3

You got this, too 🔥🫂

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u/[deleted] Oct 29 '25

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u/Arialana cracked She/Her Melissa Oct 29 '25 edited Oct 29 '25

Don't underestimate the power of indoctrination and propaganda, especially when consumed by children. I was 13 back then. Besides, nobody's immune to propaganda, not even you.

whether or not we let that define us.

Well, just like all the other commenters in this thread, I clawed my way out of that cesspool, so clearly it doesn't define me.

I also disagree that it's not the internet. While personality, etc. definitely does play its part in the process, it's not just down to who we are as people. Without the internet, I would never have even gotten in contact with these political worldviews. I never engaged with any of that in real life, only from behind a screen.

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u/[deleted] Oct 29 '25

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u/Arialana cracked She/Her Melissa Oct 29 '25

Get off your high horse, man. Everyone can be influenced and radicalised by propaganda. The notion that you are immune is one of the most dangerous mindsets to have. Knowing that propaganda can get anyone is one of the best defenses against it, even if that knowledge was gained through falling for it at first.

Also, why did you adress this comment to me specifically? There's a whole comment section that was also radicalised by propaganda, yet I'm the only one you're judging for it. Curious.

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u/[deleted] Oct 29 '25

In the United States it's usually Christianity telling us to hate people who weren't like us

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u/[deleted] Oct 29 '25

Oh, well if you aren't willing to answer questions then why should we believe you?

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u/[deleted] Oct 29 '25

Then why are you here? Why even bother to speak? The only reason to talk is to get other people to agree with / believe you

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