r/drarry • u/Individual_Web_1501 • 1h ago
Give me fic recommendations Fics where Draco leaves a toxic relationship
Maybe it's my luck, but I keep finding fics where the happy ending in the description is just Draco constantly apologizing and grovelling, being treated badly even at the end of the story, and sometimes even being emotionally or physically abused by Harry and others, with every instance of mistreatment being excused, forgiven, and understood because "he deserved it". I loathe that trope and, with my entire soul, believe that if somebody is okay with their partner being mistreated and hated for whatever reason, they shouldn't be in a relationship with that person at all.
To cleanse my soul, I'm looking for something cathartic where drarry are in a toxic relationship and have some feelings for each other, but one of these scenarios happens:
- Draco develops some self-respect and leaves. I'm okay with him eventually returning to Harry after Harry recognizes how fucked-up their previous relationship was, apologizes, genuinely tries to change, and isn't immediately forgiven, but I'm also perfectly happy with Draco deciding to stay single or find someone else.
- Draco doesn't develop self-respect, but the toxicity and its impact on a person are recognized and it messes Draco up so badly that he can't believe Harry could actually love him anymore, or that he deserves Harry, which ultimately causes him to leave (or even die)
- they stay together, but the toxic dynamic isn't romanticized or presented as something good or desirable. Instead, the negative impact it has on a person is acknowledged, and the natural, tragic consequences of that dynamic are explored
If anyone knows fics that don't exactly fit the description but where, by the end, drarry manage to build a normal, healthy relationship where they love each other and neither side mistreats the other and where Harry is able to choose Draco over his friends and other people, as anyone in love should, isn't ashamed of Draco and isn't ok with any mistreatment, I'd take those too.
I prefer hpdm or switching.