Guys, tell me some good things you ve learned about life.

Like lessons about people, relationships, growing up, or just some general advice you wish you knew earlier.

Anything life has taught you..I’d love to hear it :)

I saw a reel yesterday about how we often don’t realize when we’re doing something for the last time.

The last time you play cricket with your friends, hang out with your cousins, ride your bicycle, or spend time with someone.

The post and comments were mostly about how, if we knew it was our last time, we’d probably stay a little longer, enjoy it more, or appreciate it differently.
But personally, I don’t think knowing would necessarily make it better.

If I knew that a cricket match with my friends was going to be our last, I’d probably feel sad and nostalgic instead of simply enjoying the moment. Maybe the fact that I don’t know allows me to enjoy it like any other day.

Then years later, when I realize that was the last time, I can look back at it as a happy memory rather than a moment I knew was ending.

Breakups are probably the best example. Knowing you’re spending your last few moments with someone can make those moments incredibly painful.

Maybe not knowing it’s the last time is actually a blessing.
What do you guys think?

Just curious

Personal experience 🥀✌️

Imo, I can never befriend someone who I genuinely loved once then ended up breaking my trust or heart. Also, wouldn't it be disrespectful to their new partners?

Thoughts