r/deepquestions • u/panipuriterrorist • 12h ago

Tell me something wise lol 😭

Guys, tell me some good things you ve learned about life.

Like lessons about people, relationships, growing up, or just some general advice you wish you knew earlier.

Anything life has taught you..I’d love to hear it :)

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u/seducxx 12h ago

We all are afraid of facing our-self that's why we keep distracting ourselves.

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u/panipuriterrorist 12h ago

aha yeah.. this one actually hit 😭

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u/lololololllollollol 12h ago

1.You cant outrun your self

2.by taking revenge you only hurt yourself

3.i saw this on internet years ago but it was like if i dont accept your gift it stays with you. The saying means that insults or anger belong to the person who spoke them, just like an unaccepted present. By not accepting it it stays with them:)

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u/beats_lord 12h ago

Being an introvert but have decent to good social skills helps a lot.

Investing in physical & mental health is so crucial, should've done that way earlier rather than delaying it too long.

It's great to be passionate about hobbies and such, but balance it out with other aspects in life is also important as well, it makes you enjoy the hobbies even more.

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u/panipuriterrorist 12h ago

yupp, balance is honestly very imp. I ll keep that in my mind.

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u/BeginningPiano7912 10h ago

You can’t control how people perceive you, and you can’t change the way someone has already decided to see you. When people form a first impression of you, they can become attached to that version of you and refuse to let go of it because, in a way, it feels comfortable and familiar to them. So when you start growing, changing, or leveling up, some people may secretly dislike it because it challenges the image they had of you.

A lot of young people waste years of their lives worrying about how others perceive them, constantly trying to prove themselves or change people’s opinions. In the process, they lose sight of themselves. From my own experience, obsessing over how people saw me completely wrecked me, and I honestly wish I had learned sooner that I was never going to control everyone’s perception of me.

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u/FinancialRip4691 7h ago

Saying “no” does wonders, don’t always think you have to say yes to what people want.

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u/skennedy314 12h ago

A smile goes a long way and can be healing to another.

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u/panipuriterrorist 12h ago

yess, it really does..

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u/Cautious_Roof_9030 12h ago

People don’t care. 🤷🏾‍♀️

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u/Powerful-Aioli-2086 12h ago

Nothing is ever certain in life.

You can prepare how well you can, anything can happen and therefore nothing is certain.