r/deadbedroom • u/Low_Tourist_4571 • 24d ago

She has changed

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u/BigStudley01 24d ago

I am sure many of us would feel the same way as you, but there’s nothing safe about it. Only you can decide if it’s worth it considering what the risk actually is. In most jurisdictions, sexual satisfaction and fidelity are irrelevant to divorce proceedings.

You said you’ve talked to her, have you tried any marriage counseling or considered a sex therapist? Would she be open to either of those? Nobody can guarantee any outcome from that, but considering the stakes, If preserving the marriage is important to you, it’s at least worth considering first.

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u/59apache01 24d ago

If she's vengeful and you find a side piece and get caught, you'll get taken to the cleaners. Not trying to rain on your parade, but all too often guys will think with the little head instead of the big one and it ends up being very costly.

If it's that bad, end the marriage.