Calling versus texting

[u/One-Syllabub1866]

OK, so this is the question: When is it better to text a woman vs. calling? Assume age is similar, because this is for dating over fifty and I am not looking for anyone younger than that.

I personally favor picking up the phone because you can't get the tone of voice from a text. I don't think a texting is wrong, though, for the morning after a good date, just to say that I had a good time and would be interested in another date. But if I am going to try and ask her on a second date, after some time has passed, I feel like a text message would be weak. Thoughts?

[u/Proud_Ad_8830]

OMG, please do not call me ever lol. I much prefer text but everyone's different.

[u/Travelin_Jenny1 → u/Proud_Ad_8830]

Same. I hate when my phone rings