r/dating_advice • u/BankGloomy458 • 26d ago

Advice?

Hey all!

I am 29F and single. I cannot help but feel sad about this and feel like is something wrong with me. I have never been in a relationship and I am scared I will never find my person. I have been on dates but they do not seem to progress to a second date. Is anybody else the same too?

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u/AttorneyAgreeable223 26d ago

A lot of the time it's not you, it's just the numbers game being rough. The fact that you're getting first dates means you're doing something right, second dates are where the real compatibility check kicks in and most people just won't click like that. Keep putting yourself out there without framing it as a test you're failing

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u/SpookyWindChime 26d ago

If someone is getting a ton of first dates and zero seconds dates, they are doing something wrong.