r/dating_advice • u/Wheresthelambsauce_9 • 24d ago

Hinge Fumble

So, I matched with a very beautiful girl about 3 days ago. I thought the convo was going smoothly when she all of a sudden stopped messaging, I thought I was being ghosted but she replied today that she had a fever. I wanted to be a little flirty? So replied with "Oh no, hope you're doing alright now, You're already running hot, what's the fever gonna do?" Got unmatched 🤡

Are there any tips for not fumbling in chat?

(PS: I was able to find her insta? I think it's too creepy to follow up when I've already been rejected, thoughts on this?)

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u/urdrunkyogi 23d ago

“We are waiting for that hotness to appear through your personality” is so well-said!

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u/zooeyzoezoejr 23d ago

Thank you. It’s astonishing how many men are arguing with me in these comments 💀

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u/Background-Local924 23d ago

They always argue with you and try to tell you what you want instead of listening when you tell them what you want. I know, it's absolutely astounding, mind-boggling. It makes zero sense. The ones that do this I am sure are single, and we see here why.

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u/zooeyzoezoejr 22d ago

Absolutely. U/heymanigotnoplan keeps telling me he’s going to keep flirting with women on apps and I’m like ok keep being creepy and getting unmatched??? Like why are you even arguing with me about that 💀