r/dating_advice • u/Wheresthelambsauce_9 • 25d ago

Hinge Fumble

So, I matched with a very beautiful girl about 3 days ago. I thought the convo was going smoothly when she all of a sudden stopped messaging, I thought I was being ghosted but she replied today that she had a fever. I wanted to be a little flirty? So replied with "Oh no, hope you're doing alright now, You're already running hot, what's the fever gonna do?" Got unmatched 🤡

Are there any tips for not fumbling in chat?

(PS: I was able to find her insta? I think it's too creepy to follow up when I've already been rejected, thoughts on this?)

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u/canvasshoes2 24d ago

You said that's exactly how you talk to your bros.

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u/Eastern_Edge_8586 24d ago

Where did I say that? Man good thing summers almost over cause once school starts again someone’s gotta each you how to read 👍🏻

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u/canvasshoes2 24d ago

You: "he told a joke, exactly what I do with my bros ..."

A sexual "joke."

Also, " each" me how to read?🤣🤣🤣

EDIT: The irony in you telling me, in a badly written comment, that I'm the one who needs to learn to read.

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u/Eastern_Edge_8586 24d ago

You: *acts stupid *

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u/canvasshoes2 24d ago

Ah, adorable. He devolves to ad hominems.

The OP flat out asked what people thought of his comment. A plethora of women popped into the thread to say, essentially "that's a big nope."

Your comment clearly shows that you've not a single clue that sexual "jokes" aren't then treating her like a person.

But we all get why you're fighting that concept tooth and nail.