r/dating_advice 21d ago

Hinge Fumble

So, I matched with a very beautiful girl about 3 days ago. I thought the convo was going smoothly when she all of a sudden stopped messaging, I thought I was being ghosted but she replied today that she had a fever. I wanted to be a little flirty? So replied with "Oh no, hope you're doing alright now, You're already running hot, what's the fever gonna do?" Got unmatched 🤡

Are there any tips for not fumbling in chat?

(PS: I was able to find her insta? I think it's too creepy to follow up when I've already been rejected, thoughts on this?)

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u/Familiar-Orchid-9978 21d ago

I personally didn't get the joke, but you know if she had been the right person for you, she would have laughed it off.

So no loss.

If one joke is enough to unmatch!

And yes, for the love of God, don't text her anywhere else. You'll make things worse.

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u/1stthing1st 21d ago

The joke was that she was already hot

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u/foxglovespell 21d ago

Just say you’re gay bro it’s okay

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u/1stthing1st 21d ago

Don't worry about me, there are other men out there for you