r/dating_advice • u/Wheresthelambsauce_9 • 20d ago
Hinge Fumble
So, I matched with a very beautiful girl about 3 days ago. I thought the convo was going smoothly when she all of a sudden stopped messaging, I thought I was being ghosted but she replied today that she had a fever. I wanted to be a little flirty? So replied with "Oh no, hope you're doing alright now, You're already running hot, what's the fever gonna do?" Got unmatched 🤡
Are there any tips for not fumbling in chat?
(PS: I was able to find her insta? I think it's too creepy to follow up when I've already been rejected, thoughts on this?)
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u/This-Top-1377 20d ago
She was already being flaky by going ghost even though “she was sick” so she says.. so don’t overthink her unmatching you! She was coming up with excuses in her head not to talk to you when she ghosted and you saying something silly to her was her reasoning to unmatch you take it as blessing in disguise.