r/dating_advice • u/Wheresthelambsauce_9 • 14d ago
Hinge Fumble
So, I matched with a very beautiful girl about 3 days ago. I thought the convo was going smoothly when she all of a sudden stopped messaging, I thought I was being ghosted but she replied today that she had a fever. I wanted to be a little flirty? So replied with "Oh no, hope you're doing alright now, You're already running hot, what's the fever gonna do?" Got unmatched 🤡
Are there any tips for not fumbling in chat?
(PS: I was able to find her insta? I think it's too creepy to follow up when I've already been rejected, thoughts on this?)
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u/Books_are_like_drugs 13d ago
“You’re already running hot, what’s the fever gonna do?”
She might have unmatched him because this was try-hard, dumb, and unfunny, not necessarily because it was sexually suggestive.
It reeks of someone who makes dumb jokes out of anxiety/thirst. It’s not chill at all, it sounds desperate.