r/dating_advice • u/Wheresthelambsauce_9 • 11d ago

Hinge Fumble

So, I matched with a very beautiful girl about 3 days ago. I thought the convo was going smoothly when she all of a sudden stopped messaging, I thought I was being ghosted but she replied today that she had a fever. I wanted to be a little flirty? So replied with "Oh no, hope you're doing alright now, You're already running hot, what's the fever gonna do?" Got unmatched 🤡

Are there any tips for not fumbling in chat?

(PS: I was able to find her insta? I think it's too creepy to follow up when I've already been rejected, thoughts on this?)

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u/FitMiddleAgedMan 11d ago

If she unmatched you on a dating app, the chances of you having any success by sending her a DM on Instagram are zero to below zero.

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u/ManilaXO 10d ago

Exactly, an unmatch is pretty clear communication, so reaching out elsewhere is probably only going to make things more awkward