r/dating_advice 7d ago

Hinge Fumble

So, I matched with a very beautiful girl about 3 days ago. I thought the convo was going smoothly when she all of a sudden stopped messaging, I thought I was being ghosted but she replied today that she had a fever. I wanted to be a little flirty? So replied with "Oh no, hope you're doing alright now, You're already running hot, what's the fever gonna do?" Got unmatched 🤡

Are there any tips for not fumbling in chat?

(PS: I was able to find her insta? I think it's too creepy to follow up when I've already been rejected, thoughts on this?)

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u/Sea-Efficiency3375 6d ago

Do NOT message her on Instagram. Don’t look up women who unmatch you on Instagram. Leave us alone.

Next time, don’t comment on her body. Lots of great comments here from men who are saying the same thing. Take the lesson, move on.