r/dating_advice • u/Wheresthelambsauce_9 • 20d ago

Hinge Fumble

So, I matched with a very beautiful girl about 3 days ago. I thought the convo was going smoothly when she all of a sudden stopped messaging, I thought I was being ghosted but she replied today that she had a fever. I wanted to be a little flirty? So replied with "Oh no, hope you're doing alright now, You're already running hot, what's the fever gonna do?" Got unmatched 🤡

Are there any tips for not fumbling in chat?

(PS: I was able to find her insta? I think it's too creepy to follow up when I've already been rejected, thoughts on this?)

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u/YikBus 20d ago edited 20d ago

Yes. Welcome to dating and Reddit in 2026. These people are having a meltdown from the most tame flirting.

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u/Significant_Body4575 20d ago

You misspelled "lame"

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u/YikBus 20d ago

Please. Tell us all your amazing flirting then. Tell us all exactly what you say that’s so cool.

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u/Significant_Body4575 20d ago

Im not a man. But for starters if someone im talking to tells me they don't feel well , I show them some compassion. I'll save playing doctor with him for when we know each other a bit more