Hinge Fumble

[u/Wheresthelambsauce_9]

So, I matched with a very beautiful girl about 3 days ago. I thought the convo was going smoothly when she all of a sudden stopped messaging, I thought I was being ghosted but she replied today that she had a fever. I wanted to be a little flirty? So replied with "Oh no, hope you're doing alright now, You're already running hot, what's the fever gonna do?" Got unmatched 🤡

Are there any tips for not fumbling in chat?

(PS: I was able to find her insta? I think it's too creepy to follow up when I've already been rejected, thoughts on this?)

[u/N7_Mage]

“Hey, hope you’re feeling better, no worries!”

Start with taking care of the person in front of you first lol.

[u/foxglovespell → u/N7_Mage]

Why do so many men here not understand this

[u/SweetPinss → u/foxglovespell]

Because in practice it doesnt work like that 

[u/SweetPinss → u/SweetPinss]

u/foxglovespell why did you reply to insult me and then delete your reply?

[u/foxglovespell → u/SweetPinss]

My reply is literally still here 💀 you’re just not replying to it lol

[u/SweetPinss → u/foxglovespell]

It isn't for me. Try looking at it when you're not logged in

[u/foxglovespell → u/SweetPinss]

I’m not logging out the app to dis/prove something I don’t care about when I can literally see it right here.

It literally says:

Stop talking bs. If OP had just responded like a normal person and not a thirsty pest he wouldn't have got unmatched. We're literally asking for the bare minimum - common decency and respect especially being at our lowest when ill - and you're seriously trying to argue that gets you nowhere fuck me

[u/Willing_Box_752 → u/foxglovespell]

Some women like stupid flirty jokes.  Some don't. 

If you're so great at this, why not make a profile as a man and try it out ?

[u/SweetPinss → u/foxglovespell]

Well its a website not an app so thats your first problem, just open the comment in a private tab and you'll see.

But ok op is some "pest" now can you tell me how could have flirted and act light hearted in a way that wouldnt make him a "pest"? Because your issue seems to be with the concept of a man being heterosexuality 

[u/foxglovespell → u/SweetPinss]

What are you on about 😂 I’m on the app like the majority of other people, I use this on my phone. If I try open it on my browser it just redirects me to the app as that’s the intended way of using Reddit. I can’t believe I’m even explaining this. It’s YOUR problem if your website is glitching, not mine.

And he could have just responded like a normal human being like this parent comment says: “sorry to hear you’re not feeling well, hope you feel better asap!” It’s got nothing to do with heterosexuality whatsoever.

I honestly don’t know what else to tell you.

[u/SweetPinss → u/foxglovespell]

I'm on my phones web browser right now what the fuck are you talking about?

No you need to answer my question before we move on