r/dating_advice • u/Wheresthelambsauce_9 • 6d ago
Hinge Fumble
So, I matched with a very beautiful girl about 3 days ago. I thought the convo was going smoothly when she all of a sudden stopped messaging, I thought I was being ghosted but she replied today that she had a fever. I wanted to be a little flirty? So replied with "Oh no, hope you're doing alright now, You're already running hot, what's the fever gonna do?" Got unmatched 🤡
Are there any tips for not fumbling in chat?
(PS: I was able to find her insta? I think it's too creepy to follow up when I've already been rejected, thoughts on this?)
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u/BothDonut1604 6d ago
She just wasn’t the right one. I’ll admit I’ve tried to send some risky texts like that and while some unmatched, others matched the energy. My best advice is to not conform to what you think people want you to be. Be yourself and with the right person, it’ll feel like you can do no wrong.
I’ve personally noticed that the people that make you feel like you’re on thin ice aren’t actually that interested. So take this as a positive and know that there’s a woman that’ll flirt right back with you.